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38 M Minneapolis, MN

My Details

Last Online
Feb 18
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a low-key geek who just adores a chance to have a fun or romantic night in with a lady friend, but isn't afraid of going out for a risque' evening at a nightclub. I am GLBT-supportive and a friend to all living creatures (except the ones I eat, sorry chickens, cows, and sheep!), though I don't keep any pets.

I also don't own a car. Damn things are too expensive, they pollute the environment, and get broken into in droves in my Uptown neighborhood. Bikes are better for city life.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently working the midnight shift at those tall multicolored buildings on West Bank that you see when you're going downtown. So... I sleep during the day a lot, but I'm up for things at the midnight hour!

I am also running a Gamma World tabletop game for four friends (two male, two female), every other Wednesday night. Think of Gamma World as D&D's crazy younger brother, except, instead of elves, orcs, fireballs, and magic swords, you have anthropomorphic animal-people, robots, psionic powers, and laser rifles.
I’m really good at
Giving advice to other people. Giving massages, potentially while giving good advice (I won't say 'backrub' because I also do the oft-overlooked face, hands, and leg massages).

I'm creative and have an odd humor, which isn't to say I have odd humors; I would label myself as a combination melancholic-phlegmatic with an occasional sanguine streak.
The first things people usually notice about me
Apparently it's my glasses, because I'm told that I look very different depending on if I'm wearing them or my contacts.

I'm a big guy but I like to think I'm not intimidating. The second thing that people notice about me is that I have a degree in English and try to be at least moderately grammatical.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I cancelled my cable, so I either watch Hulu/Netflis, or DVDs of shows like Dexter, The Boondocks, & Spartacus. I love Game of Thrones lots (and will probably end up getting cable again just to watch it in a couple months).

Working night shift, I mainline Rockstar Recovery Orange. I mostly end up eating at the Uptown Diner or Chipotle, and on very rare occasions I am treated (or get treated to The Caspian Bistro, the best place you've never eaten at.
The six things I could never do without
1. My Surly Cross-Check bicycle. As mentioned above, I don't own a car, and quite frankly I'm not sure I would want one in the neighborhood where I work.
2. Tylenol PM, for when I have to sleep in the early afternoon for work.
3. The Midtown Greenway, for getting pretty much everywhere I need to go.
4. Uptown, where my apartment and everything I need is.
5. Utility kilt!
6. A good book (recently, The Marbury Lens and its sequel, Passenger).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Work. I've never taken work home like this before. Just something raw about dealing with refugees, immigrants, and drug addicts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working from midnight to 10 AM Saturday. I guess I'm free before that, as long as I get sleep in there somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I get so much grief at work that I have to keep reminding myself that I never had to flee my nation of birth due to a warlord's murder squads.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–42
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
"LOL" isn't in your texting vocabulary. If that is the case, I already like you and we should talk!

You are a gamer and would like to chat games. I am getting a good laugh out of my Gamma World game right now and love to talk about it.

Ethnic origin, religion, gender identity... these things don't matter as much as open-mindedness and compassion.

I like to think that I'm not superficial, but I exercise at least a little bit every day and I would hope that someone I dated would also take care of herself, too.