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41 • Santa Barbara, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 29–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Mar 1
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Graduated from masters program
- Rather not say
- Has a kid
- Likes dogs
I'm driven and passion fuels most of what I do. I believe that anything worth doing is worth doing whole-heartedly. I value family and love spending time with my friends. I try to surround myself with good people, good food and good wine. I believe that you get back what you give in this world.
I'm constantly trying to be a better, more patient father. I have a 7 year old daughter that is constantly surprising me and she makes me laugh every day. She doesn't live with me, but I do see her a few times a week.
I also believe every life needs a great soundtrack. Music is a huge part of my world and I seldom travel anywhere without Spotify in tow. I love to see live music - at a bar in LA or here at the Bowl. I enjoy a wide range of musical styles, but I'm a rock n' roller at heart.
My ideal match shares my passion for food, wine, fashion and music. She's equally as comfortable in heels as she is in jeans and flip flops. She loves to travel and be spontaneous, but knows how to balance that with work and family. She can be serious when she needs to be, but also enjoys laughing at herself (and me) and finding humor in everyday life.
Could that be you?
Movies: Goodfellas, Pulp Fiction, Almost Famous and Garden State.
Shows: Californication, Breaking Bad, Modern Family, Friday Night Lights, Real Time with Bill Maher, The Walking Dead, Mad Men, The Newsroom, Girls, House of Lies and pretty much anything on Food Network.
Music: I'm a rock guy at heart: Guns N' Roses, Stars in Stereo, Icon for Hire, Foo Fighters, AC/DC, Mother Love Bone, Def Leppard, U2, Van Halen, Beatles, Alice in Chains and Dishwalla.
Food: I am a huge food and wine person. I love food of all types including: sushi, Italian, French, Indian, Middle Eastern, Spanish, Mexican... the list goes on.
2. Santa Barbara County Pinot Noir
5. John Varvatos Clothing/Shoes
6. Tee Off
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