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43 M Lynnwood, WA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 18
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I need someone weird, to be weird with. My brain is constantly moving at 10,000 miles per hour in a million directions at once. Although introverted, I'm outgoing, and I need someone who can keep up with me. Friends first, then let's see where our chemistry takes us!
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a game developer by trade. My passion is world building and level design. I'm also a costume nerd, and can regularly be found at various conventions with other superheroes and fantasy and anime characters.

Summer is a time for Renaissance faires for me. I'm involved with a stunt/music/black powder pirate group that tours various venues in the Northwest.

I have a diverse group of random friends that mean the world to me. We're family, and every day I'm thankful we have each other. I live a pretty damn busy life with great friends and family, but there's definitely room for one more in it.
I’m really good at
I don't know about "good at", but here's what I enjoy: guitar, sing, stage combat, level design, fencing, ballroom dance. Also D&D. (I include "good at D&D" because my future partner would have to respect that this is something worth being good at.)
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm told confidence, humor, social grace; I'm apparently the kind of guy who's all "This is who I am, here and now." Really? Man, I feel like Flynn in the first Tron movie when he says "You just keep doing what it looks like you're supposed to be doing, no matter how crazy it seems."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Harry Potter, Supernatural, Once Upon A Time, Sherlock, wine, Seattle and Oregon beer, sushi, Thai, Scott Pilgrim, Doctor Who, Torchwood, superhero movies (preference to Marvel over DC), superhero cartoons (preference to DC over Marvel), Game of Thrones (the TV series, haven't read the books yet), Final Fantasy, Ultima. (I threw some video game stuff in there too.)
The six things I could never do without
Air, food, water, shelter, sleep, and social contact.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging with friends, whether it's a gig or a play, or a few drinks or a game night, or out dancing (I think I mentioned ballroom) or a random adventure. Honestly I love Friday night shenanigans. There's something epic about attacking a weekend as soon as I get off work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Man, if I'm willing to admit it, it wouldn't be private! Weird question, sheesh!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you want to.

While I state I'm looking for "new friends", I mean friends that could lead to something more. I'm here to find a romantic partner. For me, being a friend is a start to that.

Let's bring back those days when we used to dress up a bit for dates, eh? Showing up in sweats and an old t-shirt doesn't quite do it for me.