Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Gads, this site is depressing sometimes. I would love to just send
a message to someone here and ask how they're doing, without having
to herculeanistically squeeze in several things about their
about-me, questions, and photos just to prove I actually read their
profiles and am not just spamming people indiscriminately with
"How's it going?" like so many fellows have -- and consequently I
might add made it a dreadful endeavor just to reach out to another
human being for a moment of preliminary getting-to-know-you.
Anyway. Rant over. FOR NOW!
Here's who I am: Weird. And I need someone weird, to be weird with.
My brain is constantly moving at 10,000 miles per hour in a million
directions at once. Although introverted, I'm outgoing, and I need
someone who can keep up with me.
I'm on a dating site looking specifically for romance. I know,
crazy huh? But seriously, I have enough friends. I would say I have
too many friends, but that's just because I surround myself with
quality people that I just can't get rid of because they're so
awesome. Now I'm looking for that special partner that can join me
on my escapades.
I love city adventures; food, concerts (especially bands I'm
friends with), theatre, dive bars, dancing, or just wandering
around. And when I say I like these things, I'm not just
regurgitating the norm because that would be inexcusably dull. I
mean I really REALLY fucking love the theatre, and holy crap dive
bars are great. And dancing. Goddamnit, if you don't dance and your
friends don't dance well they're (meteristic pause) no friends of
mine. Nah really, if you don't dance, then simply be okay with me
dancing without you and we're cool. Especially at concerts. Really,
who can go to a Lindsey Stirling concert and not bounce up and down
like a happy dancing rabbit?
I'm not particularly outdoorsy these days, though I'm certainly not
against it. And I will never pass up the chance to do something
new, even if it's just to say I did it (or at the very least, I
can't say I never tried). Care to test that theory?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a game developer by trade. My passion is world building and
level design. I'm also a costume nerd, and can regularly be found
at various conventions with other superheroes and fantasy and anime
Summer is a time for Renaissance faires for me. I'm involved with a
stunt/music/black powder pirate group that tours various venues in
the Northwest. I'm not SCA. That's a little too weird for even me.
Nothing against it, though. Power to you if that's your
I have a diverse group of random friends that mean the world to me.
We're family, and every day I'm thankful we have each other. I live
a pretty damn busy life with great friends and family, but there's
definitely room for one more in it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I don't know about "good at", but here's what I enjoy: guitar,
sing, stage combat, level design, fencing, ballroom dance. Also
D&D. (I include "good at D&D" because my future partner
would have to respect that this is something worth being good at.)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm told confidence, humor, social grace; I'm apparently the kind
of guy who's all "This is who I am, here and now." Really? Man, I
feel like Flynn in the first Tron movie when he says "You just keep
doing what it looks like you're supposed to be doing, no matter how
crazy it seems."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Harry Potter, Supernatural, Sherlock, wine, Seattle and Oregon
beer, sushi, Thai, Scott Pilgrim, Doctor Who, Torchwood, superhero
movies (preference to Marvel over DC), superhero cartoons
(preference to DC over Marvel), Game of Thrones (the TV series,
haven't read the books yet), Final Fantasy, Ultima. (I threw some
video game stuff in there too.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air, food, water, shelter, sleep, and social contact.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging with friends, whether it's a gig or a play, or a few drinks
or a game night, or out dancing (I think I mentioned ballroom) or a
random adventure. Honestly I love Friday night shenanigans. There's
something epic about attacking a weekend as soon as I get off work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not necessarily private, but an interesting tidbit, I don't ask
hypothetical questions, and I often don't get it when I hear them.
You should message me if
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If you want to share in a most excellent adventure.
I want to be upfront about this: I don't have a lot of relationship
experience. I've dated, but nothing really resembling a serious
relationship. I'm guessing there may be some likewise-inexperienced
potential partners out there; or at least someone understanding
enough as I learn the subtle intricacies of partnering. I'm not
alone, am I?
That doesn't mean I'm just looking for a "learning experience"
either. And definitely not a one-night stand. Let's be partners in
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