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Scottman_1

43 M Lynnwood, WA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:28pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Gads, this site is depressing sometimes. I would love to just send a message to someone here and ask how they're doing, without having to herculeanistically squeeze in several things about their about-me, questions, and photos just to prove I actually read their profiles and am not just spamming people indiscriminately with "How's it going?" like so many fellows have -- and consequently I might add made it a dreadful endeavor just to reach out to another human being for a moment of preliminary getting-to-know-you.

Anyway. Rant over. FOR NOW!

Here's who I am: Weird. And I need someone weird, to be weird with. My brain is constantly moving at 10,000 miles per hour in a million directions at once. Although introverted, I'm outgoing, and I need someone who can keep up with me.

I'm on a dating site looking specifically for romance. I know, crazy huh? But seriously, I have enough friends. I would say I have too many friends, but that's just because I surround myself with quality people that I just can't get rid of because they're so awesome. Now I'm looking for that special partner that can join me on my escapades.

I love city adventures; food, concerts (especially bands I'm friends with), theatre, dive bars, dancing, or just wandering around. And when I say I like these things, I'm not just regurgitating the norm because that would be inexcusably dull. I mean I really REALLY fucking love the theatre, and holy crap dive bars are great. And dancing. Goddamnit, if you don't dance and your friends don't dance well they're (meteristic pause) no friends of mine. Nah really, if you don't dance, then simply be okay with me dancing without you and we're cool. Especially at concerts. Really, who can go to a Lindsey Stirling concert and not bounce up and down like a happy dancing rabbit?

I'm not particularly outdoorsy these days, though I'm certainly not against it. And I will never pass up the chance to do something new, even if it's just to say I did it (or at the very least, I can't say I never tried). Care to test that theory?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a game developer by trade. My passion is world building and level design. I'm also a costume nerd, and can regularly be found at various conventions with other superheroes and fantasy and anime characters.

Summer is a time for Renaissance faires for me. I'm involved with a stunt/music/black powder pirate group that tours various venues in the Northwest.

I have a diverse group of random friends that mean the world to me. We're family, and every day I'm thankful we have each other. I live a pretty damn busy life with great friends and family, but there's definitely room for one more in it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I don't know about "good at", but here's what I enjoy: guitar, sing, stage combat, level design, fencing, ballroom dance. Also D&D. (I include "good at D&D" because my future partner would have to respect that this is something worth being good at.)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm told confidence, humor, social grace; I'm apparently the kind of guy who's all "This is who I am, here and now." Really? Man, I feel like Flynn in the first Tron movie when he says "You just keep doing what it looks like you're supposed to be doing, no matter how crazy it seems."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Harry Potter, Supernatural, Sherlock, wine, Seattle and Oregon beer, sushi, Thai, Scott Pilgrim, Doctor Who, Torchwood, superhero movies (preference to Marvel over DC), superhero cartoons (preference to DC over Marvel), Game of Thrones (the TV series, haven't read the books yet), Final Fantasy, Ultima. (I threw some video game stuff in there too.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air, food, water, shelter, sleep, and social contact.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Goals.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging with friends, whether it's a gig or a play, or a few drinks or a game night, or out dancing (I think I mentioned ballroom) or a random adventure. Honestly I love Friday night shenanigans. There's something epic about attacking a weekend as soon as I get off work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not necessarily private, but an interesting tidbit, I don't ask hypothetical questions, and I often don't get it when I hear them.
You should message me if
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If you want to share in a most excellent adventure.

I want to be upfront about this: I don't have a lot of relationship experience. I've dated (and I mean lots and lots of dating, seriously now), but nothing really resembling a serious relationship. I'm guessing there may be some likewise-inexperienced potential partners out there; or at least someone understanding enough as I learn the subtle intricacies of dating.

That doesn't mean I'm just looking for a "learning experience" either. And definitely not a one-night stand. Let's be partners in this, eh?