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44 • Lynnwood, WA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 33–43
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 3:40pm
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Agnosticism, and laughing about it
- Graduated from university
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t want kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
Anyway. Rant over. FOR NOW!
Here's who I am: Weird. And I need someone weird, to be weird with. My brain is constantly moving at 10,000 miles per hour in a million directions at once. Although introverted, I'm outgoing, and I need someone who can keep up with me.
I'm on a dating site looking specifically for romance. I know, crazy huh? But seriously, I have enough friends. I would say I have too many friends, but that's just because I surround myself with quality people that I just can't get rid of because they're so awesome. Now I'm looking for that special partner that can join me on my escapades.
I love city adventures; food, concerts (especially bands I'm friends with), theatre, dive bars, dancing, or just wandering around. And when I say I like these things, I'm not just regurgitating the norm because that would be inexcusably dull. I mean I really REALLY fucking love the theatre, and holy crap dive bars are great. And dancing. Goddamnit, if you don't dance and your friends don't dance well they're (meteristic pause) no friends of mine. Nah really, if you don't dance, then simply be okay with me dancing without you and we're cool. Especially at concerts. Really, who can go to a Lindsey Stirling concert and not bounce up and down like a happy dancing rabbit?
I'm not particularly outdoorsy these days, though I'm certainly not against it. And I will never pass up the chance to do something new, even if it's just to say I did it (or at the very least, I can't say I never tried). Care to test that theory?
Summer is a time for Renaissance faires for me. I'm involved with a stunt/music/black powder pirate group that tours various venues in the Northwest. I'm not SCA. That's a little too weird for even me. Nothing against it, though. Power to you if that's your thing!
I have a diverse group of random friends that mean the world to me. We're family, and every day I'm thankful we have each other. I live a pretty damn busy life with great friends and family, but there's definitely room for one more in it.
I want to be upfront about this: I don't have a lot of relationship experience. I've dated, but nothing really resembling a serious relationship. I'm guessing there may be some likewise-inexperienced potential partners out there; or at least someone understanding enough as I learn the subtle intricacies of partnering. I'm not alone, am I?
That doesn't mean I'm just looking for a "learning experience" either. And definitely not a one-night stand. Let's be partners in this, eh?
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