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29 Davis, CA Genderqueer, Man

Genderqueer, Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 22-34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 22
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I like art and conversations and bars. In undergrad I discussed Virginia Woolf and Marxism and queer theory around beer pong tables, and now I'm even more obnoxious.

I'm from Minneapolis. I like riding city buses. I miss skylines. Some of my favorite things in the world are windows, box fans, dance parties, weddings, and road trips. Winter is my favorite season. I make good guacamole.

Currently living in Davis for grad school, but I'm a little wanderlusty & spend a lot of time in Nevada City, East Bay, Sacramento, LA, etc.
What I’m doing with my life
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I help run a publishing & media organization, and I'm a PhD student at UC-Davis, where I also teach.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
comedic timing, wearing hats, punctuating.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm short. I laugh loudly. I have [pretty eyes / shaved head / good beard / cool tattoos].
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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AUTHORS: Ross Gay, Robert Hass, Judith Butler, James Baldwin, Juliana Spahr, Gary Snyder, Fred Moten, Karl Marx, J. Jack Halberstam, Flannery O'Connor, Thomas Merton, Idris Goodwin, Justin Torres, Cathy Park Hong, Anne Carson, Joy Harjo, Jeanette Winterson, Sherman Alexie, etccccc

MOVIES: The Craft, The Mighty Ducks, Lord of the Rings, Waking Life, Star Wars, The Matrix, Hunger Games

TV: Fresh Prince of Bel Air, Buffy, Game of Thrones, Battlestar Galactica, Chappelle's Show

MUSIC: Kendrick Lamar, Prince, Rilo Kiley, Regina Spektor, Fiona Apple, Dessa, Counting Crows, Notorious BIG, Ani DiFranco, Sol.Illaquists of Sound, Kacey Musgraves

FOOD: Avocados are my life partner
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
close friends
the internet / internet machines
rap songs
pretty things
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
language, uprisings, gender non-normativity, poetry, food & food justice, racial justice, animal justice, economic justice, queer shit, beer, broccoli, sweaters, cool t-shirts and skirts, tattoos, wilderness, abolition, fugitivity, refuge, and, to quote a beautiful poem by Gabrielle Calvocoressi, "cities burning / if people need to burn them to get free. / My grandmother gardening / in the late light."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the bar with friends, or reading/writing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes I catch myself singing 50 Cent's "P.I.M.P." to myself, but I replace the titular letters with "E-N-F-P."
You should message me if
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you want to talk about cool stuff, eat good things, be cute together, or make rap songs.