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45 • Tucson, AZ • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 24
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body type
- Other, but not too serious about it
- Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from law school
- Sales / Marketing
- Rather not say
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Has dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)
I'm a triathlete & marathon runner (several sprint tri's and Olympic-level tri's each year & usually a marathon or two). I recently finished my first half-Ironman triathlon.
Training for those keeps me in good shape, so I'm always swimming, running, and cycling. I love hiking, and Tucson is such a great place for that.
I love to cook, & I'm good at it. I'm going to take an Indian cooking class when I'm done renovating my kitchen.
I'm a fashion designer - the Enzo Fabiola line! I've designed four jackets, and I just finished two pairs of pants (satin, zebra-print & red/black fabric I brought from Nigeria).
I'm renovating my house (travertine and slate tile floors now), and rebuilding a '69 Lincoln Continental and a '66 Chevy truck.
I'm writing and recording original music for film soundtracks, my own album, and short films.
I've been acting in films, including The Hangover 3 in Nogales, a local zombie movie, as the manager of a drag queen; and a western shot at Old Tucson Studios. If you're on Youtube, search for "Jonestown Band Billy Got a Knife." That's a music video I'm in.
I write fiction. I'm about 120,000 words into my first novel, and six short stories into a collection. My plan is to self-publish both of these.
I recently started an original comic strip, releasing over 200 strips so far. My goal is to publish a book later this year.
I've been attending Tantric seminars, which is fascinating and sexy.
I've traveled extensively- 22 countries on 6 continents, much of it solo.
I'm a print and runway fashion model, modeling for TV, magazines, and fashion shows. I've also been doing studio work for stock photograph websites.
I've also taken my glamour photography to the next level, shooting female model friends of mine, and helping them build their portfolios.
Other than the sports that I do (triathlons, marathons, hiking, skiing and scuba-diving), I have no interest in sports. You will not find me watching football, basketball, golf or anything else on TV. Ever. I would rather DO and ACCOMPLISH than watch others doing and accomplishing.
Oh yeah - I'm growing out my hair to donate to Locks of Love! (recent revision - I don't think that is going to happen. I like long hair too much to give it up. That was the original idea, though.)
Movies: Office Space, Undercover Brother, Black Dynamite, The Matrix, Austin Powers 1-3, Don't Mess With The Zohan, Nacho Libre, and Dark City. Cheezy B-movies from the 1950's, 60's, and 70's. Anything that plays at The Loft. What The #$%&* Do We Know, and The Secret.
Music: funk, rock, jazz, down-tempo, chill-out, house, trance, ambient.
Food: Mexican, Italian, Indian, seafood, fruits and veggies, and a glass of milk. Pretty much anything I make at home - that's my favorite restaurant.
Shows: I don't have cable or get any stations (by choice), so I only see stuff on DVD. Heroes, Californication, Frisky Dingo, My Name Is Earl, Robot Chicken, Futurama.
You have real eyebrows - not that shaved-off, painted-on weirdness.
You enjoy being outside and you exercise regularly.
You have at least one photo other than a selfie.
You know how to use punctuation and your grammar is good ("your" vs. "you're;" and "their" vs. "there" vs. "they're").
Your written communication is more than just "text-speak."
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