You want a man who challenges you to be smarter, dares you to reach for greatness, to learn continuously, to work harder, and to strive to be a better person. Simultaneously, he will support you in times of weakness and vulnerability without being dismissive or condescending. You want a man who is strong, inside and out; mentally and physically - a man who knows what he wants and pursues it with passion and ferocity. You want a man who is at once decisive, but careful; self-assured, but not arrogant. This man must be kind and sensitive to the wants and needs of others; particularly of those he cares for the most; and, especially you because you shall be his world. He will love his family and, certainly, he will come to love yours just as yours will come to love him. He is handsome, but not conceited. He is rugged, but not brash. He is powerful, but not power-hungry. He is ambitious, but not greedy. He is kindhearted and he does not lose his temper, but you know that if the need arose, he would protect you and those he loves with a focused level of force and intensity that you may even find a little intimidating. Yet when you are with him, you feel his presence and he always puts you at ease with a deep sense of security.
A man having these characteristics will necessarily be successful and happy, as he will follow and achieve his dreams. His life is passion abounds. He can laugh at himself, and make you laugh. He is adventurous and spontaneous, but stable and rock-solid in all things. He is good with his words (as well as his hands!), and his love for you will be unquenchable as he shall look upon you with adoration and lust long after the initial flames and outburst of your romance settle into deep burning embers many years from now. You can give your heart fully to this man, for he will keep it safe and well. You can entrust your deepest secrets with just as he can with you. This man does not break his promises and he shall tell you no lies. This man is prepared to give you everything - all he asks in return is your love.
Undoubtedly, this man’s name is Ryan Gosling. And you are probably never, ever going to meet him. That said, I am certainly available and would love to take you out sometime :)