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39 M Westport, MA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:15am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I believe in change. It's often a painful thing but I still believe in it. So I don't mind taking a chance or two. I think people shouldn't be scared and unhappy and afraid of making that occasional leap. Try new things. Go on adventures. Let go a bit more. Usually it was worth it.

I also try to focus on the things that I really enjoy doing. I'm honest to a fault (including that statement).

I have a single tattoo. I wouldn't mind more but more important financial matters come up. Have had long hair for perhaps too long now. The mutton chops evolved from a beard and were inspired from a friend and Jet from Cowboy Bebop.
What I’m doing with my life
I love my work in the marine sciences. I love studying my arts. :-)
I’m really good at
I'm not really a fan of this question. I try to be good at the things I do. I'll leave it for others to judge if I'm half way decent. I think most people agree I'm good at certain things.
The first things people usually notice about me
Wow. That's not a bad question. I'm really not sure. I think people tend to like my confidence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: I read lots of technical-type books and usually multiple at once.

For pleasure type books here's a few:
Lord of the Rings, Ranma 1/2, Lone Wolf and Cub

Here's what's on my coffee table right now:
Animals of the Ocean, The Great Book of Wine, Kabuki, Uncle Shelby's ABZ Book, All Star Batman and Robin, The Origin of the Species, I Ching, Idiot's Guide to the I Ching, Idiot's Guide to Alchemy, Baby's First Mythos, The Pipe Companion, Jersey Diners, The Soapmaker's Companion, and Alchemy and Mysticism.

movies: really awesomely bad cult movies, samurai flicks, anime, American animation.

music: I'm all over the place here. punk, ska, rock, calypso, jazz, alternative, metal, lounge, etc.

food: variety. ...and muffins. I enjoy trying new cultural foods. I'm pretty much always up for the adventure.
The six things I could never do without
All things in life are impermanent.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Tai chi and bagua
projects I'm working on
...and even occasionally work

oh, and coffee. Love coffee.
On a typical Friday night I am
with friends, at a Rocky Horror Show, training, gaming, diners
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating