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40 • Westport, MA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 24–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 23
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body type
- Masters program
- Science / Engineering
- Open relationship
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
I also try to focus on the things that I really enjoy doing. I'm honest to a fault (including that statement).
I have a single tattoo. I wouldn't mind more but more important financial matters come up. Have had long hair for perhaps too long now. The mutton chops evolved from a beard and were inspired from a friend and Jet from Cowboy Bebop.
For pleasure type books here's a few:
Lord of the Rings, Ranma 1/2, Lone Wolf and Cub
Here's what's on my coffee table right now:
Animals of the Ocean, The Great Book of Wine, Kabuki, Uncle Shelby's ABZ Book, All Star Batman and Robin, The Origin of the Species, I Ching, Idiot's Guide to the I Ching, Idiot's Guide to Alchemy, Baby's First Mythos, The Pipe Companion, Jersey Diners, The Soapmaker's Companion, and Alchemy and Mysticism.
movies: really awesomely bad cult movies, samurai flicks, anime, American animation.
music: I'm all over the place here. punk, ska, rock, calypso, jazz, alternative, metal, lounge, etc.
food: variety. ...and muffins. I enjoy trying new cultural foods. I'm pretty much always up for the adventure.
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