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48 M Oshkosh, WI

My Details

Last Online
May 13
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
When drinking
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids

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My self-summary
Update .. I finally put newer pics on of me now a bit chunkier! And I am realizing I have been on this site way too long. Another one too!! I see many of the same women on here month after month and year after year!! Maybe we are all too picky and actually enjoy being alone. It's better than being with one who's not totally even nice very often,, just so we dont have to feel lonlieness,,, or need someone to pay half our bills.( but That one would be nice. bills cut in half? wow, i can only dream!!)....But I am Down to earth, peaceful, Hoping to land someone just like me!! But obviously ok if I dont,,and keep leaving the ones I find who dont treat me with the kindness and respect everyone deserves. Fk the bs of the cranky, violent, psychos that we start to fall for and keep coming back to these sites looking,,, again. BUT I MYSELF AM a peaceful , sometimes spacey, and a funny guy., NOT at all the passive aggressive type that I seem to meet.
What I’m doing with my life
Many musicals going on.. playing some keys and strings and things,. spending time with the grown two kids, one each, and their two daughters. Traveling, making and selling machine shop parts, disc golf a lot. WHAT DO YOUUUU WANNA DO WITH YOUR LIFE!!! (some random old song lyric...sorry:(
I’m really good at
being honest and sometimes biting my tongue. Not caring too much what the norm is and going completely the other way.... Being ok with myself and not setteling for someone just because I may be a bit lonely.
The first things people usually notice about me
Is that I'm laughing usually.. Eyes, ears, nose, and throat.? My ability to get along without being a meanie?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Edgar Cayce stuff. Henry Miller.. Movies-Leaving Las Vegas and Harold and Maude.. Music , acid& deep house -Portishead, New Order, Depeche Mode, Chemical Brothers, etc. Food- Mostly any but especially tofu, vanilla soy milk(Silk Brand), and peaches
The six things I could never do without
My kids, friends, Old Bicycles, music, occasionaly a bit of physical pleasures, and fruit. I used to state something here about Green Party dreams, but took it down due to misunderstandings. Some thought it had meant weed partys, not the political party!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
tomorrow in love maybe?,, yesterday in New Orleans, and today in Club Anything,or Mad Planet Friday nite retro show...dancing (the best i still can on a metal ladden ankle)..
On a typical Friday night I am
Meeting new people, with old friends, dancing, eating, thinking (too much sometimes) Disc golfing or snorkeling
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmmmmm.....????? I am way too honest.. Have had an open door policy when in love or even just meeting someone...just ask!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–53
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are a peaceful, non violent, open minded, lover of all that is good? And you can dance and not worry that you may be the only one on the floor. ; Or if you can go an hour without a rude comment (prefferably a whole day) or cutting down some innocents.