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31 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Black, White
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Might want kids

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My self-summary
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self-summaries are difficult.... the bare bones:
born in the UK
grew up in the Bay Area
now on the UWS

Ultimately I believe every problem in life can be solved with a Berenstain Bears book. Those Judeo-Christian bears really have it all figured out.
What I’m doing with my life
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my day job is working with preschoolers. def want kids someday but working with them is great birth control

i am also a writer and non-profit theatre practitioner.
i moved here to study theatre education and curriculum development. Currently finishing my MA in Ed theatre...

In my spare time I enjoy running, boxing, listening to music and trying to figure out what to do with my spare time...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...Playing the spoons; making hard boiled eggs; Beatles trivia; imitating Steve Urkel; fixing broken action figures; celebrating kwanza; reciting the Declaration of Independence; finding the g-spot; grand theft auto; ignoring stop signs... The lists goes on...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
ethnically ambiguous
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Human Smoke by Nicholson Baker
The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
Resurrection by Leo Tolstoy
Things Fall Apart By Chinua Achebe
Examined Lives by James Miller
The Power and The Glory by Graeme Greene
The Appeal by John Grisham
Fathers and Sons by Ivan Turgenev
The Years of LBJ by Robert Caro
Disclosure by Michael Crichton

A King in New York by Chaplin
Rear Window by Hitchcock
Its a Wonderful Life by Capra
On the Waterfront by Kazan
Schitzopolis by Sodebergh
Adventure! by Fleming
Ghost Dog by Jarmusch
Stalker by Tarkovsky
Wild at Heart by Lynch
The Rainmaker by Coppola
The Game by Fincher
I Heart Huckabees by Russell
Master and Commander by Weir
King of New York by Ferrera
Sexy Beast by Glazer
Hook by Spielberg
2001: A Space Odyssey by Kubrick
Battle of Algiers by Pontecorvo
From Dusk Til Dawn by Rodriguez
Malcolm X by Lee
Casino by Scorsese
Dersu Uzula by Kurosawa
Match Point by Allen
Jackie Brown by Tarantino
The Prestige by Nolan
Children of Men by Cuaron
Unforgiven by Eastwood
JFK by Stone
Buffalo 66 by Gallo

Breaking Bad
Orange is the new black
Mad Men
Modern Family
Shark Tank
The office- uk
30 Rock
American Dad
Boardwalk Empire
The Americans
Game of Thrones

kendrick lamar
dead prez
the black keys
cat stevens
jim croce
roberta flack
george harrison
joni mitchell
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends and family
community theatre
trader joes
the new yorker
turner classic movies
fruit pastilles
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...the next five years...

...expectation and empathy...

...the law of fifths...

...what I leave behind... to deconstruct supremacy consciousness...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working, hanging out with friends, going to museums & art shows, reading, cooking, watching a movie, going away for the weekend...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i own a non-decorative stuffed animal
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