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28 M Sterling Heights, MI

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
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Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.'s tough summarizing what isn't linear and what has no clear essence.

...Actually its remarkably easy to summarize such a thing....its just a question of what can ultimately be expected from such a summary? If you can answer that'll at least have a good summary of who you are.

I'm an existentialist. A feminist. I'm eternally bored by politics. I like guitars. I get along alright.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
...I have a career...but that's just part of it...I'm trying to learn how to act more out of compassion, faith, and hope...and how to create more beauty...outside of working and all of that business I try to do nothing and just be....but I mess that up frequently and start doing again.

Meditation. Compiling what I perpetually pray remain small piles of trash.

I sometimes forget to breathe. I never forget to write.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and responding. I believe all the human talents ultimately rest there....also: producing blank stares on children's faces....hanging out in book stores....avoiding compliments....finding inopportune times for jokes....eating cereal....not reacting emotionally to other drivers.....
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Something that is deep within their self that I can usually not relate to ....but it makes for nice conversation and allows me to cheat at poker despite appearing as a law abiding citizen.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
oh well, .....if only someone's favorite book told you something about who they were....nevertheless, books and and music have helped me define my life in moments of wild thin mercury, but - have my definitions been actualized? ....

Bob Dylan and Soren Kierkegaard have never erred....and besides not erring, they've done many lovely things that I'd probably have cut my own ear off long ago had I had to do without them.

Heidegger , Rilke, Kafka, Hoelderlin, Rimbaud, Camus, James Baldwin, Thomas Merton many other dead people
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Everything that has ever mattered to me, at one time or another, I've had to do without...I don't think I dig this question.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
.I think frequently about literature, spirituality, philosophy, theology, music, work, my friends and family - ways to be of service to others (i wish I was better at that) - how I wish I was a more active gardener...what is emptying out of my pen...other strange domestic things....none of this was in order of importance....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
True, though its a distinct possibility I am not.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When nobody can see me....I tap dance....It's impossible for me to prove this....and therefore....universally and categorically private - but hey....admire my willingness?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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I don't think you should or shouldn'tdo what you desire...or even...what you believe you ought to do.