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36 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:00am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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Despite living in New York long enough to know better, I remain an unreconstructed New Englander. That means I have a fondness for archaic terminology, I dress as the L.L. Bean catalog tells me to and among my life’s ambitions are an old truck and an old hound dog. But it also means that I take things in stride and remain if not exactly unflappable, at least unruffled.

Among other things, I’m spiritually linked to the sea. I prefer a close group of friends to a raft of acquaintances. I like a good guitar solo. I don’t own a suit. I’d rather spend a quiet night in than a loud night out. And although New York’s been pretty decent to me, most of the time I’d rather be among the salt air, sails and scrimshaw of Cape Cod.
What I’m doing with my life
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I’m in advertising. It's challenging, rewarding and maddening, oftentimes all at once.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Maintaining my composure, bringing some goodnatured levity to things and operating as a pub trivia ringer.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a fairly good handshake.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I just finished “The Boys in the Boat,” a recounting of the 1936 U.S. Olympic eight-man crew. Being a former rower myself (starboard, if you’re curious) I greatly enjoyed it and was reminded of the sport’s unique blend of pain and grace. Next up is “Poseur,” a memoir about the 1990s music scene in New York.

As for music and movies, they run the gamut. I really do like Chromeo’s new album (bought it on vinyl, even) but things usually skew Yacht Rock and early-90s British alternative. Meanwhile, I’m a little behind the times on movies, nothing recent having resonated with me. Until something does, “To Live and Die in L.A.” and “The Muppet Movie” remain on heavy rotation.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cape Cod.
Fresh air.
Sailboats, even though I get seasick.
My Jeep.
My job.
A sixth thing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The endgame.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's entirely possible that I could be at my desk. If not, I'm decompressing from having been at my desk.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I will never be happy with my self-summary.
You should message me if
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If you're kind, mature and grounded.