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SeasickOarsman

36 San Francisco, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:16am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Speaks
English
My self-summary
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Hello! Like so many others in this town, I’m not from San Francisco originally. In fact, I’m not even from California. New England is where I was born and raised, Cape Cod is where I return to, and New York is where I moved from.

Needless to say, being that much a creature of the East Coast makes me something of a square peg on the West. My bearing is more formal than the norm. My appearance is largely what’s seen in the pages of the L.L. Bean catalogue. And if you’ve ever heard the late George Plimpton speak, you’re already familiar with my occasionally tortured speech pattern.

That all having been said, in the end, I’m gainfully employed, generally well behaved, and look forward to chatting.
What I’m doing with my life
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I’m in advertising. It's challenging, rewarding, and maddening, oftentimes all at once.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Maintaining my composure, bringing some goodnatured levity to things, and operating as a pub trivia ringer.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a fairly good handshake.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Without a doubt, my favorite book is “Decline and Fall” by Evelyn Waugh. It’s a send up of pre-war English (and Welsh, I guess) society, but what I enjoy most is the language. I’ve been reading and rereading it since high school, and I always find some fantastic turn of phrase that I hadn’t picked up on before.

As for music, it’s largely British alternative from the late 70s through the mid 90s, plus a good deal of Yacht Rock. But on the margins, you’ll find a fair amount of classic hip hop and Lower East Side punk. Meanwhile, I don’t really have a go-to movie, although lately I’ve been watching films set in New York, from “Léon” to “When Harry Met Sally.” Maybe I just miss the place.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cape Cod.
Fresh air.
The sight of sailboats. (Not actual sailing—I get seasick.)
My Jeep.
My job.
A sixth thing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The endgame.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's entirely possible that I could be at my desk. If not, I'm decompressing from having been at my desk.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will never be happy with my self-summary.
You should message me if
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If you're kind, mature, and grounded.