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SeasickOarsman

35 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:11pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Despite living in New York long enough to carry an in-state license, I remain a bit of a square peg in this town. To wit, the most exotic drink you’ll ever see me order is a dark n’ stormy. I like the prime rib hash at Keens, but on the pub side of the place. I keep the top down on my Jeep through October. I still haven’t figured out the rhythm of this city. I still haven’t figured out which bar has the best jukebox: Jimmy’s Corner or Billymark’s.

Furthermore, I own two rocking chairs. It bugs me that I can’t bike over the Henry Hudson Bridge and get out of Manhattan, if only for a moment. I have a modest vinyl collection. I miss being an athlete, less for the physical fitness and more for the competition. I miss my dog. I’m a harsh critic of myself. I bake a decent pound cake. And wherever I am, chances are I’d rather be on Cape Cod.

So, square peg, but there you have it.
What I’m doing with my life
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I’m in advertising. It’s a fun, rewarding job that is also frequently maddening. Many a plan has been scrapped due to last-minute client demands. That makes it difficult to live a balanced life, but it's something I'm working on.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Maintaining my composure.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a fairly good handshake.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Working on Doris Kearns Goodwin’s “The Bully Pulpit.” It’s about Theodore Roosevelt, William Taft and the cadre of reformist journalists led by S.S. McClure. Great book, especially when it comes to Taft—I never really knew much about him.

As for music and movies, well, they run the gamut. “To Live and Die in L.A.” is one of my favorite pictures, but so is “The Muppet Movie.” And as for music, you’ll find examples of just about everything in my Spotify library, but my comfort zone is yacht rock and British new wave and alternative.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Summer on Cape Cod.
Fresh air.
Sailboats, even though I get seasick.
My Jeep.
My job.
A sixth thing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The endgame.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's entirely possible that I could be at my desk; if not, I'm decompressing from having been at my desk.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
At the moment, that I'm on a dating website.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You don't insist on wrapping yourself in a head scarf when riding in a convertible.