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SeasickOarsman

36 New York, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:13am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Despite living here long enough that it should’ve worn off, I remain a dyed-in-the-wool New Englander and, frankly, a bit of a dork. That means my vocabulary is littered with terms like “going down Cape,” while among my life ambitions is an old truck to tinker with on weekends. But it also means that I take this town in stride and remain if not exactly unflappable, at least unruffled.

Altogether, I’m relatively reserved, but underneath is a reserve of broad humor. I’m spiritually linked to the sea, but I have a tendency towards seasickness. I prefer close friends to a raft of acquaintances. I like a good guitar solo. I don’t own a suit. I can’t say I fit into New York, yet no place has been as kind to me. Still, in most cases, I’d rather be on Cape Cod.
What I’m doing with my life
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I’m in advertising. It's challenging, rewarding and maddening, oftentimes all at once.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Maintaining my composure, bringing some goodnatured levity to things and operating as a pub trivia ringer.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a fairly good handshake.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Right now, I’m reading “The Maritime History of Massachusetts” by S.E. Morison. While it’s playing to type in my case, it’s also fleshing out history that I simply took for granted growing up. Things like clipper ships were regarded in much the same way as the sky being blue; now I’m at least learning about how they came to be.

As for music and movies, they run the gamut. I really do like Chromeo’s new album (bought it on vinyl, even) but things usually skew Yacht Rock and early-90s British alternative. Meanwhile, I’m a little behind the times on movies, nothing recent having resonated with me. Until something does, “To Live and Die in L.A.” and “The Muppet Movie” remain on heavy rotation.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cape Cod.
Fresh air.
Sailboats, even though I get seasick.
My Jeep.
My job.
A sixth thing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The endgame.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's entirely possible that I could be at my desk; if not, I'm decompressing from having been at my desk.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
At the moment, that I'm on a dating website.
You should message me if
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If you're kind, mature and grounded.