I am mostly a normal guy… well at least on the outside the inside is a bit off color and poly geeky kinky. There are a lot of different pieces to me and like a puzzle each piece adds to the whole trying to describe how those pieces fit isn’t something I am great at doing. I have worked as a chef, a geek, a laborer.
I like to stay home by a fire (except my new place doesn't have a fireplace, does yours?) or to travel to see new places. I like long walks in the evenings or playing games on the computer. I like great shows, and cheesy movies. So much depends on who I’m with and the mood at the time.
I grew up a New Yorker and I guess I'll always have a bit of that in me. But I have lived in many places and they have all changed me. I'm a first generation American, and also date back to the revolution. I like wearing a tux to a show, or eating a burger on the corner in jeans. There isn't a definition that has ever really resonated with me. Maybe you can find one?
I’d love to meet folks that add to my life, people that smile and see the joy in the things around them. I’m looking for a person with whom I can first build a friendship and I’m looking for a person that makes me laugh. I’m looking for a person for fun, play, or FWB, but really I think that friendship would be the best take away in the end.
I am Honest, Witty, and Authentic
Books: Most by Neil Stephenson, William Gibson, P.K. Dick, S.M. Stirling.
In general I tend to the science fiction/fantasy genre. I have been reading some alternative history lately and likeing it.
Movies: Better Off Dead, Blade Runner, The Wall, Rocky Horror, Star Wars, Serenity, Harold and Maude.
My tastes really span a wide range. I like silly comedies, and big action flicks, really I like movies in general.
Music: Pink Floyd, Afro Celt, Meat Loaf, NIN, Amanda Palmer, VNV Nation
This is a tough one to pin down. I like a huge range of music. Really the only music styles I am not fond of are Rap and some country. Different music fits different events and different moods music links strongly to my life experiences.
I love seeing how things fit together, everything from world events to those little nail puzzles in bars.
While yes this is a dating site, that doesn't mean that is the only interactions we might have. I'd rather make friends then have just lovers, and if some friends become lovers, that's even better!