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40 • Kirkland, WA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–45
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Dec 21, 2014
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body Type
- Strictly anything
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
- Art / Music / Writing
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Has dogs
- English (Fluently)
If my life had a soundtrack, it might sound something like this. Lately it sounds a lot like this, with more stops and starts (I'm learning!). Or this, because it's claymation, it's cold, and I live in their town.
Philosophically, I'm really good at balancing wisdom with wonder. And responsibility with a little recklessness.
I'm still pretty good at old-fashioned four-by-four rollerskating. And carving downhill on a dancer-length longboard.
I'm good at playing the piano, and certainly enjoy it more now than I did a long time ago.
And it seems that I'm good at teaching art and design principles to my friends' children. (Complementary colors are frenemies!)
I like movies about nobility and sacrifice. Sometimes with explosions.
I like irony, sarcasm, and satire, but I think sincerity is funnier.
I like games that encourage cooperation more than competition.
I like music that takes me to another time and place. Rio de Janeiro in the sixties. Philadelphia in the seventies. Manchester in the eighties. Bristol in the nineties. Paris in the oughts. Space in the future?
I like French for breakfast or brunch, Vietnamese for lunch, and Japanese or Korean for dinner. I really like barbecue, Texas Hill Country style, for lunch and dinner. I love Mexican for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
A creative time or place or means to meditate.
An appreciation of life's absurdities.
An opportunity for honest introspection.
An eye for silver linings.
Kindness, plain and simple.
Why things are the way they are.
How stuff works.
Which is better...
... contentment or fulfillment?
... joy or equanimity?
... courage or fearlessness?
... reason or intuition?
... knowledge or faith?
... order or chaos?
... Stoicism or Buddhism?
... peanut butter or chocolate?
... knowing what you want, or wanting what you have?
... usually, creating things. Or making mischief.
And I firmly believe that the electronic cigarette is the most under-appreciated medical advancement of the 21st Century.
... you wish online dating was more like a virtual cocktail party and less like shopping on Amazon. Or playing the odds on a poker site.
... you like the scent of rain on asphalt in a warm summer breeze. Or the sound of carefree laughter in another room. Or the sight of a harvest moon settling into the ocean. Or the taste of pumpkin cookies with spiced frosting fresh from the bakery. Or the touch of a welcome hand at the small of your back. I like these things too. :-)
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