My nerdy side is strong : I love books, sciences, politics, scifi, games; etc.
And yet., I'm not a complete stereotype.
I love meeting new people (in small numbers if I have a choice).
I'm pretty active in some collective initiatives (associations).
I love sex, erotica and pornography (not any kind, mind you, it has to fit my feminist and sex-positive values).
And an important point on a site like this one :
I have a girlfriend I live with.
We believe in polyamory, in having an open relationship.
Although we consider our actual relationship to have priority in where we want to go with our lives, we also consider it essential to have and live and build other relationships, in whatever shape of form they can take.
And, yes : openly, without lies or manipulation. That is important.