Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I don't like to sell myself, so I'll keep this short.
My nerdy side is strong : I love books, sciences, politics, scifi,
And yet., I'm not a complete stereotype.
I love meeting new people (in small numbers if I have a
I'm pretty active in some collective initiatives
I love sex, erotica and pornography (not any kind, mind you, it has
to fit my feminist and sex-positive values).
And an important point on a site like this one :
I have a girlfriend I live with.
We believe in polyamory, in having an open relationship.
Although we consider our actual relationship to have priority in
where we want to go with our lives, we also consider it essential
to have and live and build other relationships, in whatever shape
of form they can take.
And, yes : openly, without lies or manipulation. That is important.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Inventing it one step at a time, and hoping it'll keep getting
better 'til I die.
And thus, inventing my own job (it actually revolves around
teaching to adults using games), and the kind of relationships I
want to be in.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting bored, switching gears, finding new centers of interest.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That's a question I should ask you, isn't it ?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books : way too many. I eat books for breakfast. To start with some
important ones : George Bataille, Ballard, Neal Stephenson, Nicolas
Bouvier, Ethical Slut, Terry Pratchett, Robert Anton Wilson, Joolz,
Peter Hamilton, Flow, Bakunin, Neal Gaiman, Tim Powers, Virginie
Despentes, Hunter Thompson, Alexandre Vialatte...
Movies : Doctor Who, Monty Python, Blade Runner, Clerks,
Persepolis, Les invasions barbares.
Music : Loic Lantoine, They Might Be Giants, Tool.
Food : Japanese comes to mind first.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Pen and paper.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking, period.
I spend a lot of time thinking it would be easier to think
I spend a lot of time thinking it's such a pleasure to think.
And I get lost.
And mostly, I like it that way.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are ok with me having a girlfriend, and you don't like
cheating, lying, etc.
You are already in an open relationship (aka polyamorous).
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