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Seb_earth

40 M Lyon, France

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 24–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Mar 17
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I don't like to sell myself, so I'll keep this short.

My nerdy side is strong : I love books, sciences, politics, scifi, games; etc.
And yet., I'm not a complete stereotype.
I love meeting new people (in small numbers if I have a choice).
I'm pretty active in some collective initiatives (associations).
I love sex, erotica and pornography (not any kind, mind you, it has to fit my feminist and sex-positive values).

And an important point on a site like this one :
I have a girlfriend I live with.
We believe in polyamory, in having an open relationship.
Although we consider our actual relationship to have priority in where we want to go with our lives, we also consider it essential to have and live and build other relationships, in whatever shape of form they can take.
And, yes : openly, without lies or manipulation. That is important.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Inventing it one step at a time, and hoping it'll keep getting better 'til I die.

And thus, inventing my own job (it actually revolves around teaching to adults using games), and the kind of relationships I want to be in.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading.
Understanding.
Listening.
Explaining.
Getting bored, switching gears, finding new centers of interest.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That's a question I should ask you, isn't it ?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books : way too many. I eat books for breakfast. To start with some important ones : George Bataille, Ballard, Neal Stephenson, Nicolas Bouvier, Ethical Slut, Terry Pratchett, Robert Anton Wilson, Joolz, Peter Hamilton, Flow, Bakunin, Neal Gaiman, Tim Powers, Virginie Despentes, Hunter Thompson, Alexandre Vialatte...

Movies : Doctor Who, Monty Python, Blade Runner, Clerks, Persepolis, Les invasions barbares.

Music : Loic Lantoine, They Might Be Giants, Tool.

Food : Japanese comes to mind first.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Pen and paper.
Computer.
Books.
Games.
Silence.
Company.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking, period.
I spend a lot of time thinking it would be easier to think less.
I spend a lot of time thinking it's such a pleasure to think.
And I get lost.
Often.
And mostly, I like it that way.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are ok with me having a girlfriend, and you don't like cheating, lying, etc.
You are already in an open relationship (aka polyamorous).