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SecretDreams09

25 F Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:37am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.66m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Administration
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm an army brat, but grew up mostly in Texas. I've moved around quite a bit it seems since college and now I'm in Bensonhurst / Borough Park, Brooklyn. I live with my 2 cats and definitely NO roommates (have I got some stories to tell you)! I've been here in NYC for about 3 years now...

I've been told I'm way too open and honest. I really don't feel like that's a thing, but I suppose it drives people away. If you ask me if something makes you look fat, I will be honest with you (keep in mind the question was if you "look" fat... not if you "are"). Also, I will tell you pretty much anything you want to know about myself within reason... But you have to be prepared for the truth. I'm not the best at sugar-coating I guess...

I'm not the best when it comes to "dating". I just can't get into the concept because when I'm seeing one person, it's hard to set aside any feelings towards them to see someone else as well. I'm definitely much better as a girlfriend than as some girl you've been seeing for a couple of weeks I suppose.

I love reading, board games, swing dancing, wine, and being lazy in parks. I'm a bit of a nerd and I absolutely hate "text speak" (i.e., wut r u up 2) and bad grammar... Also, I'm a sucker for British and Australian accents (hence all the BBC and Australian shows in my likes).

I'm also in love with Stephen Merchant...
What I’m doing with my life
I am an Office Manager in the Diamond District of New York City. I haven't really figured out what I want to do... but I enjoy what I'm doing now. I have a BS in math, which really doesn't mean anything...

Also, lately I've been cross-stitching quite a bit.
I’m really good at
Planning things... I discovered this when my friends and I planned out our "Golden Mile" and I came up with the bars, route, map, and time table... I even laminated everything and handed these out to all who participated.

I also drink like a fish and cuss like a sailor!
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm Asian...

...because I get this question all the time, I'm half Korean.

(also everyone seems to think I'm taller than I actually am...)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
The 13 1/2 Lives of Captain Bluebear; 1Q84; Alice's Adventures in Wonderland; A Song of Ice and Fire Series; Breakfast at Tiffany's; Bridget Jones's Diary; The Chronicles of Narnia; Cloud Atlas; The Color Purple; The Count of Monte Cristo; The Discworld Series; Dracula; Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas: A Savage Journey to the Heart of the American Dream; Good Omens; The Great Gatsby; Gulliver's Travels; The Gun Seller; Harry Potter; Interview with the Vampire; John Dies at the End; Middlesex; A Modest Proposal; The Princess Bride; P.S. Your Cat is Dead; Skippy Dies; The Thorn Birds; This Book is Full of Spiders; Through the Looking-Glass

Anything by: Douglas Adams, Neil Gaiman, Nick Hornby, Christopher Moore, Chuck Palahniuk, Jonathan Tropper, & Kurt Vonnegut

Currently reading: The Weirdness: A Novel by Jeremy Bushnell

Movies:
Airplane!; Benny & Joon; Breakfast at Tiffany's; Breakfast Club; Bridget Jones' Diary; Bridget Jones: The Edge of Reason; Class; Clue; Dirty Dancing; Disney's Alice in Wonderland; Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog; The Emperor's New Groove; Eulogy; The Graduate; Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy; Hot Fuzz; Labyrinth; Moulin Rouge; Pretty in Pink; The Princess Bride; Revenge of the Nerds; Robin Hood: Men in Tights; Rocky Horror Picture Show; Say Anything; Sixteen Candles; St. Elmo's Fire; Up; WALL•E

TV:
30 Rock; American Horror Story; Animal Practice; Archer; Arrested Development; The Big Bang Theory; Black Books (BBC); Chuck; Community; Coupling (BBC); Dirk Gently (BBC); Doctor Who (BBC); Don't Trust the Bitch in Apartment 23; Episodes (BBC); Futurama; Green Wing (BBC); Grimm; House; How I Met Your Mother; IT Crowd (BBC); Jekyll (BBC); Love Child (Nine); Masters of Sex; Men at Work; Misfits (BBC); Orphan Black (BBC); Revenge; Royal Pains; Scrubs; Skins (BBC); Spy (BBC); Two Guys and a Girl; A Young Doctor's Notebook

Board Games:
7 Wonders; Alhambra; Ascension; Betrayal at House on the Hill; Cards Against Humanity; Castle Panic; Discworld: Ankh-Morpork; Puerto Rico; Saint Petersburg; Settlers of Catan; Shadows Over Camelot; Small World; Ticket To Ride

Not a board game, but I recently got into D&D and I LOVE it!

Music:
+44; Against Me!; Avicii; Bastille; Blink 182; Breathe Carolina; The Cat Empire; Celebrate Tuesday; Ellie Goudling; Fall Out Boy; Flogging Molly; The Fray; Frightened Rabbit; fun.; Gaelic Storm; Hellogoodbye; Jack’s Mannequin; JamisonParker; Jem; Lana Del Rey; Marie & the redCat; Maroon 5; MC Lars; Meg and Dia; The Melodic; Metric; Mika; Mindless Self Indulgence; Of Monsters and Men; Odis; The Offspring; Panic! At the Disco; Pink Spiders; Polysics; Protest the Hero; Reel Big Fish; Relient K; Rise Against; Say Anything; The Shins; Simple Plan; Something Corporate; Streetlight Manifesto; Stromae; Taking Back Sunday; Tegan and Sara; Vampire Weekend; Whole Wheat Bread

Food:
I'm very picky, so it's easier to say I don't eat vegetables and seafood. I've been much more adventurous since moving to NYC so my favorite cuisine is now Indian! Also, I'm probably the least healthy eater you'll ever meet...
The six things I could never do without
Cell phone (with HopStop / Google Maps)
Something to read (preferably fiction)
Unlimited metro card
Flat iron (my natural hair is a combo of straight, wavy, curly, and frizzy)
Box cutter (I keep one in my purse at all times... but don't worry... I keep the pepper spray and mini stun gun at home)
A towel :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where are all the baby pigeons???

Ever notice how some songs really make you wanna get up and dance... And some really make you wanna get up and punch someone right in the face. Or maybe I just really want to punch someone in the face...
On a typical Friday night I am
Because I work on Fridays, I usually take it easy that night... I'm a morning person which makes me not much of a night owl. I have a hard time staying up past midnight most of the time... but Saturdays I'm always down for drinks or bowling or an adventure of sorts!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I hated Catcher in the Rye...

Also, I watched all Star Wars movies in one sitting during Hurricane Sandy...

...and I'm always listening in on other people's conversations (sometimes they're pretty awesome!)
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You're okay with someone who sneezes to the side cuz she doesn't want to get her sleeves/arms wet...

..also someone who has 2 cats, is almost always wearing glasses instead of contacts, rarely wears makeup, and sometimes doesn't even feel like doing her hair because it's just such a mess outside.