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26 F Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 22
Native American
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Full figured
Graduated from university
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My self-summary
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I had too much written here. It went something like:

Bookstores, coffee shops, spicy food. Tattoos, burlesque shows, academic talks, social justice initiatives. Bluegrass music, country living in the big city, feminist critiques, intelligent conversations that carry on into the wee hours of the morning. I live to travel, travel, travel - planes, trains, and the great American road trip.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in international education, which currently means that I work in development at an NGO, running a scholarship program for international students. I adore my job.

Update: I bought a fiddle at the World's Largest Garage Sale and am going to try to play it. So you can add that to what I'm doing with my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Empathy, Russian accents, batting cleanup, and I do some pretty mean Lana Del Rey karaoke - feminism may bore her, but the grrl's got a killer set of pipes.
The first things people usually notice about me
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"Is that your natural hair?"

My eyes are green and orange. Yes, orange.

Although unrelated to appearance, the first reaction people have to meeting me is to sing, "Gloria! G-L-O-R-I-A! Gloria!" The Patti Smith version is preferable to the 1980s mob movie anthem, but the original Van Morrison tops them all. Under no circumstances should "Angels We Have Heard on High" be sung to me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Bell Jar, Harry Potter, A Separate Peace, Hannah Arendt, Kierkegaard, Just Kids.

10 Things I Hate About You is my favorite movie - judge away. Requiem For a Dream, Eternal Sunshine, Trainspotting, SLC Punk. Life is Beautiful, Swing Kids, the Normal Heart, Boys Don't Cry. All the feels.

Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Frasier, Orange is the New Black, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, True Detective.

The Avett Brothers, the Yeah, Yeah, Yeahs, The Fratellis, Old Crow Medicine Show, Concrete Blonde, Ryan Adams, 21 Pilots, Kodaline, Patti Smith, Joan Jett, Johnny Cash. American folk, Indie Folk, Irish folk, some occasional punk, and bluegrass. But really, deeply, and truly - The Avett Brothers

Spicy (mostly vegetarian) food - Indian, Mexican, Turkish, Ethiopian, Thai. MmmMmmm.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Passport - lost it once just before a trip. Never again.
2. A good book to read while commuting (I just finished "You Deserve Nothing." Currently reading "Traveling with Pomegranates")
3. Occasional rainy days, coupled with a nice cup of tea and a good blanket
4. Escaping to my ancestral homeland (the Adirondacks) on the reg.
5. Long, deep, meaningful, and sometimes totally absurd conversations.
6. Skim milk with ice
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The intersectionality of worldwide indigenous cultures - someday I want to create an international educational exchange for tribe members to work toward the betterment of indigenous rights on a global scale. Yes.

Because I studied philosophy as an undergrad, it seems I'm perpetually bound to think about a lot of abstract and theoretical nonsense; mostly it helps me to find analytical holes in the logic of politicians and bosses. Romanticization of Americana culture (mostly me thinking about sitting on a porch swing in the mountains with a nice man serenading me on the guitar or banjo.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually headed out of town on some adventure. If not, you can find me on my porch reading a book or talking with friends, out in the city with friends, seeing live music with friends, biking the boardwalk (friends optional,) or having Netflix marathons with my roommates.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Online dating is the worst. I don't want to know the intimate details of your life. I should have to earn that, ya know?
You should message me if
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I'm a very dedicated feminist and queer ally, and it's important to me that whoever I date be open minded, and generally accepting. Also, please be body positive. Neither of us will have very much fun on a date if you're a fat-phobe.

Or, if you can teach me how to play the fiddle.