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26 Newark, NJ Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 11
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
When drinking
Other, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi All,

I'm a kinky, poly, business lady. I'm a dedicated artist who spends a lot of time with her work. Beyond that I'm just making life awesome one day at a time. I laugh, I make ends meet, and I'm learning to sleep.

I'm an Army Brat, artsy kid, history buff, lover of ink and motorcycles, an admirer of passionate people who vigoriously pursue their goals.

I'm simple. I love freely, steadfastly but rarely. I'd like to say that I'm award-winningly charismatic, but wouldn't we all. I'm pretty awesome and clearly modest. I'm straight forward, don't care for drama.

I enjoy my whiskey neat and my beer cold. Constantly covered in whatever project I'm currently working on, I love my messy artistic process too much to ever leave for long. My smile is bright; my smirk is sharp.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I run an office by day in the media world. I write and illustrate a comic book, a run a not for profit community service group, mentor young adults, train for tough mudder and study arthropology in my free time. My life is full of wonderful people and I'm honored to be explicitly committed to three wonderful individuals.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
See number 1 and 2. I can repeat myself but I doubt you've read this far down and are enraptured by repetitive purpose statements! If so, I'm sorry I may not be the person you want to talk to.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well I'd like for them to notice that I'm super awesome! As I'm not other people and my friends are sarcastic assholes, I'm going to go with my wild hair. It's like a mane of dreams and magic. More realistically, that I'm covered in one art project or another.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite books are too specific, lets hit some artists and authors that I care about instead: Joseph Conrad, Jim Lee, Edward Gorey, Jhonen Vasquez, Ito Ogure, Frank Miller, Aubrey Beardsley and Roald Dahl are all worth a look/read.

I can talk about television... and my love of Gordon Ramsey, Arrested Development, historical fictions like Downton Abbey and North& South... or I could just admit that I'm a fan of comic book movies and get over myself.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Well, let's see. 1) Finishing profiles is clearly one of them since I'm answering this question against my better judgement. 2-5) The essentials: food, water, shelter, sarcasm 6) The family that I've created with my friends. These crazy people keep me strong.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
So many projects and the little time in which I have to compete them all.

Launching the comic book I create.

Working with art collectives

Remembering to sleep.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
FIGHTING CRIME! I mean... definitely not fighting crime... nothing to see here.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I respect but do not subscribe to monogamy (romantically or sexually). I understand the intellectual idea and respect other people's choices but I will never be monogamous. I will never be straight or gay. I will always have partners regardless of gender and of many genders. Like Julius Caesar I'm going to rule this bitch regardless of who I sleep with, how, or why. So, sex positivity and a lack of gender biases is pretty important to me.
You should message me if
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If you're poly and kinky. I don't engage in primary/secondary structures nor do I date poly-flexible people. That's dating though. I'm friends with people of lots of sort of relationship structures. You understand the phrase sub leaning switch.

You are an artist who doesn't mind exchanging ideas, banter, and flirtations while we work in opposite sides of a studio.

You are an adventurer who wants to take long hikes, rock climb, camp, fish, hunt, and see the world.

You're not afraid to disagree about life, art, and everything in between; however, you're not one to be disrespectful or dismissive.