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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:02am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and very serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Italian (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Ok, so here is where I go on to tell you about me and what I am looking for and all that good stuff, lol. I am usually very good with words, but these self summaries can make or break you, so there is a lot of pressure!

Seeing as you are not interested in reading an autobiography, I will keep this succinct (like that is possible...). I am an educator currently at a technical school, highly ironic because 1. I never had an interest in teaching as a kid and 2. I have spent most of my working career teaching in some form.

Humor and intelligence are my two best and most prominent features. I have a big heart and am very affectionate. I am caring and sincere. I write poetry. I am a great cook. Why the hell am I single???? LOL!

I like texts. I like holding hands. I like affection. I like conversation. I like feeling I am getting as good as I am giving. I like being able to be myself. If you don't like these things, please don't write to me...and if I write to you, don't write back, lol.

I kid, but I am not kidding about looking for a relationship. A real relationship where we get to know each other and make an effort to be good to each other. I have no time for BS, flakiness or games. If you are affectionate, love to laugh, emotionally mature and looking for a relationship, drop me a line! Please tell me a bit about what you are looking for and something interesting about yourself when you do!

For the record...

Just to be totally clear about something, I don't smoke cigarettes but I do smoke cigars. OKC has yet to include this as an option for clarification. I won't smoke in front of you if smoke bothers you, but I am not giving up my one (only one? ok, admittedly that is debatable) bad habit. Also, must love dogs, or at least you must love mine. And frankly with a dog this loveable, if you don't love him we probably won't get along anyway.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Teaching and trying to figure out what's next.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, poetry, laughing, making others laugh, making other's feel special, Power Point presentations. Among other things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile. I like to spread the wealth with others and hope to make at least one other person smile a day!

People have also said I have nice eyes, and those people would be correct ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love Sci Fi and action novels and movies (I am a sensitive guy, but still a guy after all, lol). As for music, if it has a beat or brings back a memory, I listen to it. I have every genre represented on my Note 3. For the record, until Samsung goes back to making phones with removable batteries and a slot for an SD chip this once loyal Samsung customer will never again buy another Samsung phone. I gravitate to Pop, Blues and Metal.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Excluding the obvious...

1. God. My Catholic Faith and my relationship with Christ are very important to me
2. Family and Friends
3. My Samsung even though I curse at it a lot when it freezes
4. My Laptop. See number 3
5. Reading Material
6. Laughter. I am like a plant in that way I can find my own something to laugh at even if nothing is immediately available
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future. Things I want to change about me even though I love the person I am. Family. The rest is private for a private conversation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Open to suggestions
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Why would anyone admit something that private on a public website?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you made it this far and have a smle on your face, you know you want to get to know me, so go ahead, give in to temptation. Please be genuine and sincere - I am not here to waste your time please don't waste mine. Thanks ;-)