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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:17am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Graduated from med school
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I grew up in Japan where I was constantly subjected to random strangers wanting to touch my hair. I kind of miss it.

I've been at the same university for 17 years and counting. I probably need to work on my fear of change...

I have an Irish first name and a Finnish last name, but am neither Irish nor Finnish (I do love both countries' beers, however).

I never took piano lessons, but as a kid I memorized the fingering for Chariots of Fire. Please let me know if you're planning on doing anything in slow-motion and need an accompanist.

I concur with cummings: yes is a world & in this world of yes live (skillfully curled) all worlds

My Erdős number is 4.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an Assistant Professor at Columbia studying neuroscience. I love that I get to spend all day thinking about how the brain works.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Almost everyone comments that I appear much younger than my age. I usually answer that it's because I moisturize.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book: Ada or Ardor by Nabokov
Magazine: New Yorker
Film: The Life Aquatic with Steve Zissou
Pandora station seed: Dirty Projectors
Food: Tacos at El Mitote (UWSers know what I'm talking about)
Astronomical event: Manhattanhenge
Hug: Bear
Kiss: French
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A very short, incomplete, and eclectic sampling in no particular order:

Wines from Piedmont
Saucony running shoes
Tasting menus
Phone charging opportunities
MATLAB & Python
Eye contact on the subway
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating elegant edibles.
Imbibing innumerable intoxicants.

Oh, and cursing the 3 am subway system.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I read a lot of fantasy when I was a kid. There may be a box of those books in my apartment labeled "dork porn".
You should message me if
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You like books, and flirtatious looks.