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CautiouslyOnOKC

35 New York, NY Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 11
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Graduated from med school
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I grew up in Japan where I was constantly subjected to random strangers wanting to touch my hair. I kind of miss it.

I've been at the same university for 17 years and counting. I probably need to work on my fear of change...

I have an Irish first name and a Finnish last name, but am neither Irish nor Finnish (I do love both countries' beers, however).

I never took piano lessons, but as a kid I memorized the fingering for Chariots of Fire. Please let me know if you're planning on doing anything in slow-motion and need an accompanist.

I concur with cummings: yes is a world & in this world of yes live (skillfully curled) all worlds

My Erdős number is 4.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an Assistant Professor at Columbia studying neuroscience. I love that I get to spend all day thinking about how the brain works.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Shavasana.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Almost everyone comments that I appear much younger than my age. I usually answer that it's because I moisturize.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book: Ada or Ardor by Nabokov
Magazine: New Yorker
Film: The Life Aquatic with Steve Zissou
Band: Sigur Rós
Food: Tacos at El Mitote (UWSers know what I'm talking about)
Astronomical event: Manhattanhenge
Hug: Bear
Kiss: French
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A very short, incomplete, and eclectic sampling in no particular order:

Wines from Piedmont
Saucony running shoes
Tasting menus
Phone charging opportunities
MATLAB & Python
Eye contact on the subway
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Bacon.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating elegant edibles.
Imbibing innumerable intoxicants.

Oh, and cursing the 3 am subway system.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I read a lot of fantasy when I was a kid. There may be a box of those books in my apartment labeled "dork porn".
You should message me if
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You like books, and flirtatious looks.