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26 Eugene, OR Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–36
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:54pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and laughing about it
Leo, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm an idealist who tries to hold on to the joy and beauty found in the quiet moments of our lives. My obnoxious optimism is the only way I know how to be. I also have my pensive dark moments where I would love to stay in bed and ignore the horrors going on in the world.

"I am half agony half hope"

I think it's important to be active participants in change and hope that I'm doing my small part to change the world for the better.

I would love to live in an intentional community where a group of people own the land in common and practice sustainability. I want my own hut though. I need my space!

Interesting fact: I’m horrible at sarcasm. It’s rather funny actually. Sometimes I wish a red light would go off when people are being sarcastic. So, if you see me squinting my eyes and looking glazed over I’m trying to figure out what you're saying. It always makes for an interesting time when I’m hanging with the sarcastics.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a creative writing teacher for a group for 2E kiddos online. I also write for a comic book website. For a writing gig it's a lot of fun. When the planets align just right I also write for a writing website. In the process of looking for more work. (I know this profile is riddled with typos and stuff. Over time they will be fixed.)

I'm in grad school for Special Education. It's been uber difficult in general to meet people in Eugene. So, I'm back on here with the hope of meeting cool friends to hang out with that live in the area... and, well, romance too. Also looking for a workout buddy. One of my goals is to be more active and enjoy the many ways one can move their body. Big fan of Nia if you want to try out a class.

I am also into a lot of woo woo stuff. I used to do energy healings and clearings with a meditation group back in Denver. I loved it. Meditation has helped my anxiety two fold.
I also used to do paranormal investigations with a group in my undergrad. I had a couple of interesting experiences. I try not to get to dogmatic about my beliefs as new science and experience informs my fluid brainess or at least I aim to be this way anyway. I don't always succeed. But basically question everything and if new information is presented consider it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I make for a really good teacher and it's what I love to do. Working with kids' creativity is my passion. I love watching the wheels in their heads turn.

I feel that I'm a good listener. It's something I've really focused on developing over the years.

Healthy boundaries.

I'm good at generating ideas and solutions to problems.

I'm good at the RPG and LARPing activities.

Creative, intuitive, insightful...

Really good at spoiling a movie :(

and talking more than I need to.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Physical: Got the brown hair and blue eyes.

Non physical: A little shy at first, awkward, talk a lot and quickly, I notice lots of things all once. Talk with my hands. Stuff like that I expect.

I snort when I laugh. I guess people find it endearing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a fan of fantasy and Science fiction anything really. Here’s what I like. It’s not really limited to what I list though.

Books: Name of the Wind, Wise Man’s Fear (Favorite books at the moment), Graceling, Anne McCaffrey, Lynn Flewelling, Mercedes Lackey, Octavia Butler, Ray Bradbury, Kurt Vonnegut, Philip K. Dick, Jane Austen, Tanya Huff, Margaret Atwood.

Just read Saga: Fracking brilliant!


Currently: Hemlock Grover, OITNB, Orphan Black...

And (I seem to watch too much shit) Firefly, Buffy, Angel, Fringe

STAR TREK (all of them) And when I mention Star Trek you need to know that I'm obsessed! I have watched most seasons over and over again. The Trek is usually my background noise. I also have all these article ideas. Hell I have articles online about the trek. Thought I'd let you know, since it continues to be an important part of my life.

X-Men(90’s cartoon), Pushing daises, being human, 3rd Rock from the sun, Sex and the City (guilty), Sliders, True Blood, Torchwood, Doctor Who (David Tennent and previous) , Stargate,

My favorite movie still seems to be Bladerunner. I just love it. I also love Star Wars and Lord of the Rings. Since I read a lot I gave up going to movies that are based on the books. It’s not worth the asshole that comes out when I go. Though, there have been a few good book to movie adaptations I like. Harry Potter and Time Machine come to mind.

I'm not really picky with my music. It all depends on the mood I’m in. I do have a soft spot for sad love songs that make me cry and angry 90’s music. Some songs have a better ability to stop me in my tracks than others. In my opinion, I feel Hallelujah was the best song ever written.

That’s all that I can think of at the moment.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Something to read
Touch: It's a big deal!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. Does it really matter? Imagine a beehive in the crossroads of a multiverse and you may have an idea of what the inside of my brain looks like.

Vulcan mind melds... Betazoid empathic telepathy wishing these were ways I communicated

Remember those days when you were a young one. All you had to do was go up to that random kid in school who had a buffy lunch box. "You like buffy... I like Buffy... LETS BE FRIENDS." I miss that. Don't get me wrong I don't want to relive adolescence, but sometimes adults lack of whimsy bothers me.

FEMINISM: Maybe if I bold this somewhere I can get a few less people to respond in clearly misogynistic ways or not at all.

This doesn't even cover what I think about on the daily.

Like... do the words whore and hoarder somehow have the same etymological history... need to look this up.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
homework and being a really boring human being.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've deleted/deactivated my profile sooo many times. I get annoyed deactivate then I get bored and reactivate. (My first username was hot4spock)
I've been single for like 7 years.
I'm extremely bored lately and trying to figure out ways to bring balance to my life. I need a new hobby.
You should message me if
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I'll let the bitch come out here. DON'T MESSAGE ME IF. I REPEAT DO NOT if: you're a homophobic, transphobic, think bi is just a phase, just plan on sending; Hi, wanna bang, or my husband and I are interested in....

If I get one more: "So you seem like a nerd but I gotta ask..." I'm jut going to imagine chopping you dick and shoving in up your ass. This fake geek/nerd misogyny has gotta stop. I'm not here for you to pelt with a million and one trivia questions for your amusement. Why not just geek out to a fandom we both mutually love.

Also, I'm NOT poly. I've thought of it and have several friends who are. It's not for me. I want one romantic partner. However, if you're looking for a PLATONIC pal I'm your woman.

Also, I reserve the right to be picky. If I don't respond that's my choice as it's yours. I have no qualm blocking you if you get stalkery, rude, or disrespectful. I have a tendency to respond on a whim of intuition, so if I don't respond it's not personal. I send a lot of messages of out myself. Many don't respond. Totally okay. Dating is totally a numbers game.

Anyway, feel free to message me if a whim catches you