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58 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Feb 25
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
English (Fluently), Italian (Okay), French (Okay), Latin (Okay), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I tacked on an extra 20 years to my actual age because no one believes so much charm and erudition and, frankly, rugged good looks could have been compressed into such a short span of time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Writing, creating, inventing. Determined to vint the ultimate California Sangiovese. Or Dolcetto.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Staring into someone’s eyes and making her feel like the most beautiful woman in the world.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hairline isn’t receding. My forehead has simply expanded to accommodate the growth of my mind.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I tend to see more plays than movies, and I have a penchant for savage comedies like Joe Orton, Terence McNally, and Christopher Durang. My own plays tend to emulate Tom Stoppard and Nikolai Gogol.

I still find the original La Cage aux Folles hysterical. I think Galaxy Quest was a quintessential satire. A Fish Called Wanda is probably the one movie I could watch a zillion times.

I reread Lolita every six months or so and think most people should, as well (can you imagine how things might be if high school English teachers told their students to write like Nabokov, instead of Hemingway?). I fantasize about acquiring the film rights to Gravity’s Rainbow.

Not surprisingly, I focus on Italian cuisine and try to make as much as I can by hand: pasta, pizza, gelato, limoncello, salsiccie. No, I do not grind my own polenta.

I fantasize about distilling my own grappa.

Roxie Music’s Slave to Love is unquestionably the finest melody for…you know…(no slight intended toward Bolero fans). My iPod has a separate playlist for Marvin Gaye tunes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Italian libido.
An abundance of great wine, fresh garlic & my Atlas pasta maker.
A sesquipedalian vocabulary that parallels boundless creativity.
A six-head gas-burning range.
My 20-speed Scattante bicycle and my Dunlop Biomimetic Max 134 (it’s a squash racquet).
A computer without a single Microsoft program loaded.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether there is ostensibly any difference between shoppers at Trader Joe’s and a Scientology meeting.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If my Friday nights were full, I wouldn’t need to be OKCupid.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Slightly to the left.
You should message me if
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You believe topping a pizza with a fried egg is a crime against humanity
You appreciate the difference between a real play and musical theater
You haven’t set foot in a McDonald’s since 1975
You’ve gone skinny-dipping in Bass Lake (Bolinas)
You are completely uncompromising in your disdain for tobacco