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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 10:11am
Bisexual, Heteroflexible, Pansexual, Sapiosexual
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Dropped out of University
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Socially conscious nerd who loves weird music. Grew up in a small not-so-well-off mountain town in northern New England. Never felt like I for fit in... yada yada yada.. ran off to southern California, studied math and philosophy at UCI, ended up sticking around Orange County which still manages to have enough fellow weirdos to make life tolerable.

I was quite passionate about my subjects while in school and still thrive on intellectual stimulating, but frankly I probably pushed myself too hard and burnt myself out. For now I'm trying to focus on enjoying life a bit and recharge my batteries for better things to come. I've been getting into music again (which I'm sad to say I neglected for way too long) and love hitting up punk and other types of shows. I've also been filling my intellectual void by following politics, which has been driving me increasingly to the left. It seems our society is finally starting to question some of its core institutions and values that have so far manged to escape serious large scale scrutiny, and I think that is a beautiful thing.

Throughout the years I've come to realize I strongly prefer nonmonogamous relationships (of the ethical variety) and have decided these are the only types of relationships I'm now interested in. I'm looking forward to meeting other like minded types.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Forever learning.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Debating, twisting your words into bad puns, listening.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably the long hair, then that I'm a bit of a loud smart ass.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books (fiction):
Steppenwolf, 1984, No Country for old men,

Books (nonfiction):
Language Truth and Logic, From a Logical Point of View, Evolution of the Social Contract, Hunter S. Thompson's Hell's Angels,

Taxi Driver, Pulp Fiction, Apocalypse Now, Mulholland Drive, City of God, Memento, Following, Pi, Requiem for a Dream, Fight Club, Magnolia

Game of Thrones, Louie, Firefly, Six Feet Under, Freaks and Geeks, Battlestar Galactica, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia

Bad Brains, Black Flag, The Descendents, At the Drive in, Minor Threat, The Dead Kennedys, Rage Against the Machine, Tool, slayer

Indian, Thai, Japanese, Italian, Chinese, Mexican, Seafood
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My books
-My Netbook
-Good beer
-Good drinking buddies
-Intellectual stimulation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Random philosophical problems.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This varies widely. I could be out checking out some new bar, watching a movie, or playing Cards Against Humanity with a bunch of friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a mild case of bipolar disorder. Most people don't even notice unless I tell them or they're very close to me. What this amounts to in practice is mostly weird sleep patterns and a tendency to tear up (out of both sadness and joy) a bit more often than the typical emotionally repressed American man. So, if you think this makes me "unmanly" or somehow more "dangerous", please kindly fuck off.
You should message me if
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-You want someone to go exploring with
-You appreciate left wing politics. I embrace feminism and it's outlook on relationships and have found I strongly prefer others that do add well
-You want a hiking or camping buddy
-You want a cuddle buddy
-You want a buddy on museum trips
-You get off on forming intellectual
connections with someone
-You have a great band or great movie you just have to share with someone.