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Sensuella

51 / F / Bisexual / Single

Paris, France

Her Details

Last Online
Jan 25
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hello Everybody,

I am bisexual genetic male who identifies more with his female side than the male. Both sides exist and that is who I am. I love to cook,go out, watch movies,go bicycling,host meals and laugh with friends. I have a whole series of vanilla friends who know nothing about my being transgendered and have never seen Sensuella now called Betty. I am looking for persons of either sex with who I can be myself. I fall in love with woman but have sex with men. I am also willing to try many new and exciting things. I love the femme fatale look,stockings,high heels,corsets and things like that. My heart is pure, I am real and I hope to meet you? My true hope is to find a woman who could accept (maybe even love?) me as I am but I must admit to feeling like Don Quixote chasing windmills or someone waiting for Godot. I also wish to meet men who are genuine and virile. I am all girl when that happens. I am not looking for one night stands or being treated like a science study. I am looking for genuine friends, genuine relationships, real conversation..basically anything a human being needs so why treat me differently?
I am Bi Sexual, Trans Gendered, and free

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What I’m doing with my life
I meet people on a constant basis in Paris and this is both good and bad. I am looking for continuity in all my relationships be it friendship or love but I must admit that it is a constant challenge. It seems that I am a curiosity and nothing more to many. I can be generous, charming,witty and really do try (maybe to much) to reach out . What is surprising is that my male side attracts many women when I am out as a man and this is wonderful and tragic all at the same time. These self same girls want to eliminate Betty so they are only in love with one half. I have come to the realisation that my ideal match is someone else who is trnsgendered - pre op or post op. I could be mistaken but all the girls I have met and loved have not been able to deal with my dual spirit. I am probably being to judgemental but I want a woman genetic or transgender to love and be loved. Psst - I also like great sex and I am kinky.I want to make someone happy and I want to be happy also. I am a hopeless romantic but that is the way I am built. All I ask anyone is to be honest (no manipulation because it is not necessary) even if the message is not the one I want to hear. This takes courage.

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I’m really good at
being honest in the true sense of the word. Cooking, getting better at makeup, having people share themselves to the inner core. Understanding with compassion and not being judgemental

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The first things people usually notice about me
Seamed stockings - Oh my God a Tranny!!!!

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I really want in a relationship, any relationship - is all about respect, I want to love and be loved. I want to like and be liked , I want meaningfull conversation - is this to much to ask?
Polyamoury appeals to me in that it can be a loving relationship within a close circle of friends. Being bisexual and bi gendered makes it difficult to remain faithful and worthy of trust even if this is a central part of my character.

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On a typical Friday night I am
I never know- go out and have a new adventure, sometime the adventure comes to me, hanging out with friends

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It is all pretty much on this page as we speak.

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I’m looking for
  • Bi girls only
  • Ages 31-84
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
you have the courage to meet both halves - male and female

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