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SensuousDreamer

40 / M / Straight / Single

Shrewsbury, Massachusetts

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:25pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Hmm.. I feel like this needs to be edited with more thoughtfulness, but spur of the moment - here goes: ... Raised on a 200 acre family farm in northeast Michigan (50+ beef cattle, 90 acres asparagus, 12+ acres raspberries + pastures, hayfields, woods, etc...)..

Active upbringing - sports, hunting, academics, lots of farm labor - lol... Attended 3 colleges before finally graduating from Northeastern Univ. w/ BSBA, dual concentration in International Business and Management Information Systems (summa cum laude), interrupted by brief tenure in Army Infantry (Fort Benning - medical discharge)...

Moved to MA in 94 (transferred to NU).. Lived in DC, Georgia/Ft. Benning, Back Bay, Southie, Mission Hill, and Somerville (near Davis Sq. for about 5 yrs)...

Bartended for a 1-2 yrs while in school... Worked for Lotus/IBM for 5-6 years.. Moved to Shrewsbury/Worcester area in 2000 - have been in that general area since... Have worked in everything from high tech to farming to military to bartending/waiter, to assistant store manager in retail for multimillion dollar stores, to a wide range of construction (roofing, foundations, painting, general carpentry, swimming pool industry - construction, service, chemicals, flooring (tile, h/w, laminates, carpet, etc.) -- farm background -- learned to drive on a tractor at 8 years old pulling haywagons at midnight with cursing screaming crews of men hauling hay ahead of rainstorms...

Voracious reader, skeptical observer, well educated, well travelled (27+rnd trip flights last year of IBM alone...

Good sense of humor, tolerant -- though with a low tolerance for fools.... Inquisitive nature - like reading as much as going out... Spiritual, but generally negative attitude to organized religion... Feeling increasingly bored as a bachelor -- no kids, no ex-wives -- curious to see what things may come....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have always read voraciously -- have 4 or 5 bookcases packed in my apartment, check stuff out of the library constantly... Eclectic tastes, though i tend to concentrate on history/military history (also enjoy everything from sci-fi/fantasy to historical novels, new age, pop science (quantum theory), philosophy, current affairs, horror, general fiction)... Daily routine involves monitoring variety of news sites/articles on the web after work.... I usually always have at least one book I'm working on --- I used to read 2-3 a month, though since starting a new job that pace has slowed down...

Music? -- also eclectic, though i tend to have a very low opinion of bland easy listening pop.... I gravitate toward classic rock/heavy rock, but also like blues (esp. live blues), classic country/western, heavy metal -- whatever i think reflects genuine (musical) talent/creativity -- versus the flavor of the day from a producer.. Music is a stress reliever... Don't care for rap... Skeptical on hip-hop, though i occasionally appreciate it...

Movies -- luv movies, but I've realized I've become a movie snob, in some respects, and tend to watch fewer new releases than i used to -- possibly as a result of loving new cable series like Boardwalk Empire, Justified, etc...

Food? I tend to "feed the machine", though i do appreciate quality cooking and am not afraid of investigating new types/styles... I grew up on a family farm in northern rural Michigan, so probably became accustomed to lots of variety which isn't necessarily common here -- lots of fresh fruits/vegetables and wild game...

Shows? I like live music in smaller venues.. Openminded === comedy, etc.. Although I seem to have fallen into a rut over the last 5-10 yrs, I used to enjoy stuff like Blue Man Group, larger concerts, museums,etc..
On a typical Friday night I am
probably either working, at a bar/club hanging out with friends, watching a live blues or rock cover band show at a local bar/club, or at home watching TV, surfing Web, keeping touch w/friends via facebook/chat, email, etc...
I’m looking for
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  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
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