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27 Lund, Sweden Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:32am
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Okay), Swedish (Fluently), Polish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I like people and love listening to when others talk about their experiences. I wasn't always like this, I'm really glad I changed since it's really awesome how fun it can be listening to other people's stories. :D

Proud computer nerd :D

Cuddling <3. I love cuddling and everything with physical connection. It's the best method to get me from a bad to a great mood :D This has never failed, not even when I'm grumpy, it goes away in like 2 seconds...


A bit too honest (usually scares people away :P). I don't like playing 'the game' when dating, or being indirect with hidden agendas. I would love to just connect with people heart to heart directly. No expectations of outcome, no hidden agendas, just plain and simple talk. :)

That's a bit of me I guess :)
What I’m doing with my life
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Developing games. Improving myself. Spreading joy (I hope :P).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Coming up with multiple solutions to a problem. Thinking outside the box.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I smile, laugh a lot, and I'm quiet (I like to listen and reflect what people say)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Harry Potter Deathly Hollows. Otherwise I like to read books by Dean Koontz, and... Dean Koontz and then some more from Dean Koontz. Other than that, Oryx and Crake, Game of Thrones, Ready Player One.

I listen to everything except RnB and rap. Some examples of music i regularly listen to: In Flames, Kent, Beethoven, Chopin, Infected Mushroom, Nobuo Uematsu, Lindsey Stirling, Ludique, Muse, System of a Down, Rammstein, Volbeat, Radiohead, Slagsmålsklubben, various C64-remixes, etc.

My favorite three games are Final Fantasy VII, Mass Effect-series, and Crysis.

Favorite movies: Amélie from Montmartre, The Intouchables, Lord of the Rings, Matrix, Alien-series, The Man From Earth, Inception, The Shawshank Redemption, Star Wars, Pulp Fiction, X-Men, Pirates of the Caribbean, Kill Bill.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cuddling and physical touch/intimacy. Intellectual and philosophical talks. Awesome friends :D. Sex, but maybe that's part of physical intimacy, so scratch this... My piano for expressing myself. Board and computer games I guess? :P
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Envisioning an awesome future and other super important stuff, like why the grass is green, how to remember water my plants (and when to shave), etc.
You should message me if
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You want a new optimistic friend to connect with :)

If we stay friends, cuddle buddy, become sexually involved, partners, or never meet or speak again after the first date that's for the future to decide :) I don't have any expectations on a new relationship, it becomes what it becomes. :)

I'm a mix of poly and relationship anarchist. So I should point out that I'll never be monogamous. Although to be honest I thought poly people were way crazy and only doing it for sex (which I think is fine now). I'm in it for the love though. I guess you could message me if you're interested to know more about this too. Again I have no expectations (I still have hopes though :P).

I know, my presentation is way too long...