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42 Jersey City, NJ Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 37–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 28
5' 2" (1.57m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Strangers often ask me for directions.
What I’m doing with my life
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Showing up and doing what needs doing. Pinch hitting. Making sports analogies I only partially understand. Playing records on the radio while you're sleeping. Donating to public radio and Planned Parenthood. Searching for the perfect karaoke jam. Saying yes.
I’m really good at
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Reading a map, accumulating more books than I will ever read, napping, combing through dollar record bins, ordering takeout, procrastinating but ultimately rising to the occasion.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My surprisingly firm handshake and the fact that I look like my pictures.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read books. I eat food. The drum part right before the chorus of Cheap Trick's "Surrender" is basically the best thing ever.

TV- Twin Peaks, Buffy, Doctor Who, Battlestar Galactica. Archer. Random stuff on BBC America. MSNBC occasionally.

Listening to: WFMU, NPR (But not Car Talk. Car Talk is the Worst.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Headphones, coffee, good people, good stories, prescription sunglasses, my my Metrocard.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What it's all about. How strange and hilarious and awesome my niece and nephew are. Song segueways. How to get places on public transportation. My next beach vacation. Why that song from Jesus Christ Superstar is STILL stuck in my head.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out. Or in. It all depends. Why, what are YOU doing?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was in remedial gym in first grade.
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