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Seraglio69

46 M Kailua, HI

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:15pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Management
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
VISITING SEATTLE 24-29 JULY!

Aloha,
I am a closed book: you see the cover as perceived by the author. Can you tell a good book by its cover? Isn't the same true of people? You have to open and read the book to see if you really like it. Is not the same true with people? A good person - like a good book - surprises, stimulates, and takes you away from daily life. If you would like a stimulating digression, or just want to escape from the everyday and the mundane, why not open this book? If you find its not to your taste, you can always put it down again.
I am an artistic, creative, passionate, intellectual, sapiosexual, open minded, progressive, iconoclast author and educator. I am separated and going through divorce after a long marriage. I love meeting new people, making new friends, developing enduring relationships, and exploring new, fun experiences.
What I’m doing with my life
Educating and mentoring minds; exploring new vistas; learning from past experiences; seeking new adventures; looking for partner(s) to travel life's journey and navigate its vicissitudes together. Might that be you?
I’m really good at
Listening; being empathetic; expressing compassion; caring; conversation/intellectual discussions. Being non-judgmental and understanding. Learning from my mistakes (yes I have made them; do make them; and will make them again). Negotiating equitable compromises. Not being jealous or possessive. Practicing compersion. Encouraging others to follow their passions and fulfill their dreams.
The first things people usually notice about me
My voice/accent -it is distinctive and many people like it. Probably next would be my brown eyes and then perhaps my slim legs or my pert bottom?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like so many books, movies, and foods I barely know where to start! I am an avid reader and bibliophile with broad, eclectic tastes - same goes for movies and food. I love mysteries, drama, thrillers, detective films, sci-fi, comedies, romance - a wide gamut! Faves include: (movies) Incredible Lightness of Being, Tipping the Velvet, Eyes Wide Shut, LOTR, 1984, Zulu; (music): Uktravox, OMD, Visage, Pretenders; (TV): PBS Mystery, Downton Abbey, Game of Thrones; (books): Steppenwolf, The Ethical Slut, Lolita, Emmanuelle, Passage to India. I love ethnic food - Indian, Vietnamese, Thai - anything international actually. My cultured artistic side enjoys opera, live performances, music, plays, concerts, shows, etc.
The six things I could never do without
My cell phone and laptop - its all about connection these days.
Great food and wine.
My family & friends
Getting to know new friends
New and exciting experiences
Traveling to other countries and exploring their cultures
Learning - I love to learn. if you do not exercise your brain it turns to mush!
Passion, creativity, and intellect - I am sapiosexual - what is life without intelligent passion?
Good victuals and good company.
Writing, expression, freedom.
That is more than six. Never been very good at staying inside boundaries!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Helping family and friends
Becoming a better person
Making a small difference in the world
Developing meaningful connections with others
Global events and their meaning
Matters of the heart
Being passionate about life
Good food, good drink, and good company
Why we ever thought gender was binary
On a typical Friday night I am
There is never a typical Friday night but usually I would be socializing with friends or doing something creative/artistic.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sometimes feel lonely and long to really get to know other people on a deep personal level. Yet this is paradoxically not easy in today's hyper connected world! Or as Billy Bragg so eloquently put it "we cross like ships in the night or cars in a contraflow system."
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–65
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
We have a high match and a low enemy percentage. We have similar interests , tastes, and world views; you are intrigued, and consequently feel compelled to message me.