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46 M Kaneohe, HI

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Visiting London 9-21 April

I am a closed book: you see the cover as perceived by the author. Can you tell a good book by its cover? Isn't the same true of people? You have to open and read the book to see if you like it? The same with people? A good person - like a good book - can surprise and allow escape from daily life. If you enjoy novelty or want to escape from the everyday, you could open this book?
I am an artistic, creative, passionate, intellectual, author and educator. I am separated and going through divorce after a long marriage. I have come to realuze in the last few years that I am polyamorous and I am looking for a new poly partner or partners to share compersion and establish new loving relationship(s). I have set my status as available although, unfortunately OKC has insufficient categories to reflect the true diversity of human relationships. :(
What I’m doing with my life
Educating and mentoring minds; exploring new vistas; learning from past experiences; seeking new adventures; looking for partner(s) to travel life's journey and navigate its vicissitudes together. Might that be you?
I’m really good at
Listening; being empathetic; expressing compassion; caring; conversation/intellectual discussions. Being non-judgmental and understanding. Learning from my mistakes (yes I have made them; do make them; and will make them again). Negotiating equitable compromises. Not being jealous or possessive. Practicing compersion. Encouraging others to follow their passions and fulfill their dreams.
The first things people usually notice about me
My voice -it is distinctive and many people like it. Probably next would be my brown eyes and then perhaps my slim legs or my pert bottom?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like so many books, movies, and foods I barely know where to start! I am an avid reader and bibliophile with broad, eclectic tastes - same goes for movies and food. I love mysteries, drama, thrillers, detective films, sci-fi, comedies, romance - a wide gamut! I love ethnic food - Indian, Vietnamese, Thai - anything international actually. My cultured artistic side enjoys love opera, live performances, music, plays, concerts, shows, etc.
The six things I could never do without
My cell phone and laptop - have to be connected these days.
Great food and wine.
My family & friends: but also getting to know new friends
New and exciting experiences
Traveling to other countries and exploring their cultures
Learning - I love to learn. if you do not exercise your brain it turns to mush!
Passion, creativity, and intellect - I am sapiosexual - what is life without intelligent passion?
I think that is more than six. Never been very good at staying inside boundaries. :(
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Helping family and friends
Developing meaningful connections with others
Global events and their meaning
Matters of the heart
Being passionate about life
On a typical Friday night I am
There is never a typical Friday night but usually I would be socializing with friends or doing something creative/artistic.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sometimes feel lonely and long to really get to know other people on a deep personal level rather than shallowly and superficially. But this is a paradoxically not easy in today's hyper connected world.
I’m looking for
  • Bi girls only
  • Ages 25–65
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
If you think we have significant interests in common and you are a little bit intrigued..................