No tortured intellectuals. I'll give you something to be tortured about.
Just ending a long term relationship. I think it will be nice to meet like minded people in a friendly way without a lot of expectations. I'm not looking to jump back into a relationship. I'm starting to feel that being single is my natural state, and that's OK. I'm more interested in cuddling than sex...except maybe with women.
I look for people who accept me as I am and aren't likely to be harmful to me. If someone meets this criteria and we mutually like each other I don't let the details get in the way.
I like people of lots of different gender identities, yet I don't have a big problem with the word "bisexual". It seems a close enough description.
I have lived in this area for a long time, don't have any immediate plans to move, and chances are I remember when your McMansion was woods. I'm not the typical affluent person who lives in the King of Prussia/Phoenixville area, and I don't have all of the material status symbols that so many people think are vitally important. I've also never been in debt. Things even out.
I have several different groups of friends and seem to be on the outskirts of many subcultures but never firmly entrenched in any one of them. I get along better with people outside the norm even if I'm not the fringiest person in the world. It takes awhile for me to accept and trust someone as a close friend, but I have had friends really help me out in the past and so I like to help friends in need whenever I am able.
I like writing and poetry and I also like to sing. I am non skinny, but also healthy and I enjoy hiking,dancing, weightlifting, biking, push-mowing (yeah, that's a workout!) and swimming. Other interests include thrift shopping, experimental cooking, making beaded jewelry, abandoned houses (also old houses in general...mostly anything before 1950 or so...and unique houses after that) ,elephants, black cats (OK all cats, really all animals too) karaoke and drag queens. I think man-on-man action is extremely hot. I usually like obsolete technology such as records, cassettes, real letters, and in general things from about 100 years ago. I am close with my family and am very lucky to have them. I'm childfree but don't require others in my life to be the same.
From back in the day of "I am ____, ____, and ____" : I am unbroken spirit, obscured, and disquiet