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Serenity_Quest24

24 / F / bisexual / Single

Norfolk, Virginia

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White
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5' 7" (1.70m).
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from college/university
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Other
Income
$40,000–$50,000
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Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English

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I am fiesty, quirky, and independent.

My Self-Summary

here are random facts about me, which i think is the best way to tell you about me. If you make it all teh way through without being bored, hehe that is super cool!

I'm a young professional woman
I am driven and achieve whatever i set my mind to
I'm stubborn and have been known to be just ot prove a point
I make a great girlfriend, there are many things I am not good at, but this one i know i am
I'm thoughtful and try to remember the quintecential small things that matter
I'm sincere and try to say what i mean and mean what i say
I dont go to bed angry, there is no point to lay next to someone who you are not resolved with, plus i usually feel bad after about an hour and wanna work on it
I believe in karma, so I work towards putting good things in all environments.
I love volunteering and wish more people did, more often
I love music and will give anything a listen once.
i'm a cynic, I think then i am either right or pleasantly surprised
I'm sarcastic and witty
I'm a nerd, especially about psychology and will talk about it for hours if you let me, or even read a textbook for fun :P
I love reading, preferabley non fiction.... real life is so interesting, why do we need to make things up?
I'm impatient and I want the future to be here now!
I bite my nails, which i feel if that is the worst habit i pick up, well life is not so bad then :P
i dont believe in soulmates, i think there are multiple people we could end up with and it is a matter of making ti work with someone
I believe life changes are better than diets and last longer.
I love the color of red (deep red, not candy/apple red) and roses
I believe compassion keeps the flow of life going long after other things fail
I'm a liberal, and I think if you care about others and logic, then you will be too
I'm open minded and believe the phrase "to each their own"
I was accepted into a great graduate study program (Dual Master's program), but declined to go to pursue my career
I am independent, I need someone else who is too, I dont need to be ur whole life, but I wouldnt mind sharing a life with you ;)
I dont love sports or follow any, but I know enough to watch games if someone wants to
I was a band nerd, and loved every moment of it and have memories from it that will last a lifetime ... "this one time, at band camp..." :P
I'm a night owl, and it seems ot suit me
I'm (inversely) not a morning person, i hate the mornings and it takes me a bit to wake up, especially since i dont drink coffee at all or caffeine much.
I write for fun, but mostly only about my life and girl journaling type things
I hope to publish a book I have recently outlined
I have huge tits, know why u dont see the sexy close up of them.... cause I am classy, you should be the same!
I want someone who likes me for more than my looks, they come and go and i have a great mind.
I love wine, hope to share that with someone else, and while i love it, i know nothing about it.
I have siblings that mean the world to me and watching them grow up is one of my favorite things
I have an ecclectic mix of friends and few are from the same circles
I like working, but i work hard now so that when i start a family, i wont have to work so hard
Are you really still reading?????? wow go you!
So now i am adding Misc stuff only cause I am trying to get to 1000 words! augh!
I am a horrible singer, but love doing it
inversely, I am a horrible dancer and hate doing that.... you will know i am 100% at ease with you if I dance around you
I'm very sentimental and keep all kinda of random stuff to remind me about who i was and the road i have traveled

So this is an ecclectic mix of facts... hopefully I have painted some form of a picture about myself. If you wanna know more or chat about something I said, hit me up! Also I am new to this area, like brand spankin new, fresh from the country of the midwest :P I even need just friends, so dont wanna date me, maybe we could be friends????

What I’m doing with my life

Well I am working full time as a fundraiser... just took a new job here and loving it! I am working my way up teh food chain and I have a back up plan, if this stops working or I stop loving it, well I am getting my master's and becoming a sex therapist, which is not as sexy as it sounds! it means one of two things are 98% of the problmes, either a couple can't get it together to communicate, ie "i want this but she refuses and I dunno why" type problmes (boring!) or sex offenders and thier victims. People who are living kinky lives, like the fun juicy stuff are generally pretty healthy and dont need help.

I’m really good at

talking a lot when nervous, being a light weight when drinking, working too hard, asking "what does that mean"

The first things people usually notice about me

People comment a lot on my smile, or that I am stubborn sometimes :P

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

my favorite is non fiction.... biographies and case studies. anything psych related and I am there!

food is italian, although i will try anything once

I love all kinds of music and favor whatever strikes my mood that day... lately it is country, i like a lotta pop and top 40 stuff too. Love LOVE accoustic guitar stuff. if you play you all ready have a peice of my heart.

The six things I could never do without

a hot bath, friends, chocolate, a good book, music, and learning

I spend a lot of time thinking about

the energy of the world, what am I putting into the world. Is it good enough? what are long term impacts? what am i doing with my life?

On a typical Friday night I am

around, either taking it easy from a long week, and learning about this new area. Not a lot though, cause i believe it is unsafe ot go out on friday nights alone as a woman :(

You should message me if

You want to know more, think i might be for you ;) you odnt wanna play games but wanna pursue something real

also if you do not live with your parents, have a career oriented job, and u like talking