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36 • M • Winnetka, IL
I’m looking for
- Women who like men
- Ages 24–48
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last Online
- Today – 8:51am
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body Type
- Not at all
- Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
- Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from two-year college
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs
- English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), LISP (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
I'm rather interested in meeting someone who doesn't love to laugh. I've seen an inordinate number of profiles on here that claim their owners love to laugh, and as I've never met anyone who doesn't, I'm wondering how this attribute sets them apart from anyone else. Similarly, I'd like to meet someone who dislikes having fun.
Please note that as I am not trying to exclude the overwhelming majority of the population, I'm also interested in meeting people who do, in fact, like to laugh and have fun. I'm just very curious about these alleged people who don't.
Software design and development
Writing (novels, poetry)
Achieving a lower score in bowling than anyone else in the group (This one I'm not so much interested in accomplishing any better; getting worse at getting the lowest score would be perfectly acceptable!)
Lately, it seems people have been noticing that my books are all available on Kindle. That makes me happy. :)
Movies: Avengers (and most any superhero movie), Lord of the Rings, the League of Extraordinary Gentlemen, Pirates of the Caribbean, Meet Me in St. Louis, X-Men (all), Maleficent, and too many more to list! Honestly, I like most anything with a compelling story, and I tend to care more about said story than I do about which actors are in it.
TV Shows: Doctor Who, BBC's Sherlock, Bones, The Big Bang Theory, Castle, Firefly, Grimm, How I Met Your Mother, Leverage, The IT Crowd, and a few more.
Music: Mozart, Enya, Loreena McKennitt, Evanescence, Jonathan Coulton, The Beatles, The Beach Boys, far too many more to list.
Food: Pizza, enchiladas, pizza, lasagna, pizza, spaghetti, pizza, chicken strips, pizza, celery, pizza, raw carrots, pizza, blueberries, pizza, cantelope... did I mention pizza?
- My family
- My computer
- My Android-based phone
- Intellectual stimulation
- Good tea
Also, since it's apparently important to so many people on here, I can distinguish spellings and meanings between homophones.
Ideal candidates will meet the following criteria:
- Able to communicate effectively
- Interested in actual interaction
Ideal candidates will fail to meet the following criteria:
- Prone to manipulative or passive-aggressive behavior
- In possession of feline companion
- Repulsed by intelligence and/or geekiness
- Conventional consumption of tobacco
I respond to all messages I receive, even the ones barely worthy of the name. If all you say is "Hi" though, you'll probably only get a "Hello" in response.
Yes, I've listed "new friends" among what I'm looking for; contrary to some apparently-popular notion on here, I meant it literally. In addition to messages driven by the possibility of romance, I welcome also conversation with neither the desire for nor the intention of anything more than friendship.
Oh yes, and in case you didn't read my summary, I am allergic to cats. If that is a problem, I'm sorry, but allergy meds really don't help.
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