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  • Ages 18-44
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My details

Last online
Nov 18
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Time to write up a convincing commercial for myself, and on my first cup of coffee! Type in a semi-coherent fugue is probably more like it. You know, a fresh unpolished sample of me: before my shower, before breakfast, not yet wanting to put on the music. Not as I'd meet you some evening, certainly, but perhaps as I might be on a morning afterwards.

That's clever and funny, because I say so. Who am I? A freak, first off. I'm an unrepentant alternative counterculture type, hopefully not stereotype. I'm made from a spectrum of wilder influences, a progression from retro beatnik, through hippie, heavy metal, industrial and goth, to post-everything cyberpunk. I was never part of conservative society and have no desire to be.

I did not quit being a hippie when it became unfashionable, give up on punk after it gave in to the shoe-gazers, or abandon goth after it officially became passe. The cultures I love were not phases to outgrow. I violently reject the idea that conservative=normal.

I was tempted to write a profile with a formula like: "Used, like new 1973 model. well-groomed, long-haired exterior....Take me for a test drive....". While not original, its funny to consider the comic possibilities of describing myself or someone else in that way. As a tool of self-promotion, not so perfect.

I'm interested in nanotechnology, space colonization, and the restoration of Earth's ecosystem. I'm opposed to rule by theocrats and the mega-corporations.

I think I'll boast a bit and say that I'm no athlete, but I'm in really good health for 40+. I can easily go biking for 40 miles, party all night, then ride ten miles back home afterwards like I did on 3/1/13, when I got to go see Velvet Acid Christ at the Highline Bar after running some errands on the East side earlier in the day. They have ginger bourbon there! Perhaps we'll go there sometime, my hypothetical mistress.

While I can hold my liquor well, I'm only an infrequent drinker who avoids reaching his limit. I'm a stoner and a tripper who believes in the psychedelic experience-but I never use coke, meth, or junk-ever. Never have, never will. Life is already hard enough, isn't it?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"I want to ROCK!"
I just had to type that. It was begging for it. Most of you get the reference. To actually answer the question, however, my interests are twofold:
1) To get back into college and continue my dream of mastering the nanotechnology we need to survive the 21st century
2) To find partners to explore my creative side with, by doing things like being in a band, getting serious about writing, and possibly acting in plays or shows of various ratings.
3) Certain causes concern me a great deal. Modern slavery and deforestation top the list.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Shooting pool, throwing a Frisbee, and riding my bicycle for many miles without getting tired. I'm good at my job, which I'm under a legal agreement to never discuss. You don't have to worry about me talking about work when I'm with you.
I'd like to think I'm good at writing. My standards are pretty high for the written word, though. It's possible that my talent is wishful thinking. There's only one way to find out.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That would be my long hair.
Jesus asks me for advice on how to look more shamanic.
My ancient, unadorned, well-lived in leather jacket seems to get a lot of compliments.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love my EBM/industrial! Give me also a huge serving of goth, metal, punk, the more psychedelic/political hippie rock, and the harder techno.
I also like reggae, blues, funk, and just a little bluegrass.
I absolutely can't stand rap or hip-hop. I don't like "emo"-it weakened rock so that it couldn't compete with rap anymore, in my opinion.

Joy Division
Throbbing Gristle
Skinny Puppy (and offshoots like Cyberaktif and Doubting Thomas)
Tones On Tail
Love and Rockets
Front 242
Nitzer Ebb
Sisters of Mercy
My Life With The Thrill Kill Kult
Alien Sex Fiend
Velvet Acid Christ
The Jesus and Mary Chain
Sister Machine Gun
Nine Inch Nails
Legendary Pink Dots
Sex Pistols
Front Line Assembly (especially Millenium!)
Type O Negative
Dead Can Dance
Machines of Loving Grace
The Cure's better songs (so I'm picky, sue me. Some of their stuff is too sappy for me-I don't like "emo", and they contributed much to its development)
Psychic TV
Wendy Carlos for the soundtracks to both A Clockwork Orange and the original Tron
Violent Femmes
Dripping Rictus
Dead Kennedys
Think Tree
Tangerine Dream

Other music:
The most psychedelic of the hippie stuff and early metal,
Ultimate Spinach
Aphrodite's Child
King Crimson
It's A Beautiful Day
Pink Floyd
Jethro Tull
The Moody Blues
Black Sabbath
Jefferson Airplane/Jefferson Starship/Moby Grape

Favorite Authors:
Gene Wolf (especially Book of the New Sun)
Ursula K. Le Guin
Roger Zelazny
Robert Aspirin
Bruce Sterling
William Gibson
Neal Stephenson
R. Scott Bakker
Greg Bear
Umberto Eco
Harlan Ellison
Clive Barker
Stephen King
Robert Silverberg
Poul Anderson
Frank Herbert
And legions more to be added!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, books, spicy food, spicier women, the forest, and my computer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about science, space travel, history, anthropology, politics (hate 'em!), and the future of Rock and Roll.
That's just the small talk.
It is not a hypocrisy for me to be very political and yet hate politics passionately. Politics is this huge problem which must be solved so our species can go about its business. Politics thrives on being something you have to either placate or neutralize before getting important things done.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out, or not going out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This will be fun to fill out....after a few drinks.
Oh, here's one: I think I look goofy as hell in my photo, and wonder if I should have gone for a more serious look rather than trying to project what a fun guy I am. On the other hand, could I have kept a straight face while going for a "more serious" look? I'm thinking not.
You should message me if
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You have a space ship or time machine. I'll be your love slave for passage to another universe. Together we'll colonize a new home world, unconstrained by the historical inertia of this one.

Since your cosmic powers are probably not of that kind...
You should message me if your passion is an unstoppable force of nature and you want me to know it! You are a wild animal-not uncivilized, but untamed, not domesticated.

You should message me if you're still interested after finding out that I'm not monogamous, and that I occasionally want situations involving more than one partner. Understand that I won't cheat behind your back, but I'll never be monogamous even if we marry. I'm not the jealous type, so there's no problem if you have other lovers as long as they know about us. I hate people who secretly cheat on their partners, though. If you're with me, you're openly invited to join in whatever I do. Don't neglect me or deceive me, and I will trust you to do as you please.

I'm on that quest for true love, but I'm a permissive sort and not opposed to casual fun with the like-minded.