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Seth489

33 / M / straight / Single

Indianapolis, Indiana

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 4" (1.93m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Transportation
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am tall, dedicated, and easy going..

My Self-Summary

I am a bit sarcastic at times (my friends would dispute the "at times"). I enjoy photography, reading, music (more rock/alt.country), golf, camping, auto racing (sadly, I must disclaimer this as well. Auto Racing does not necessarily = NASCAR), football (insert obligatory "Go Colts! here), working out, history, and museums. Oh! I have mad skills in the kitchen and on the grill...I love to make my lady dinner. I'm handy with tools, too. I'm a bit of a news junkie. I read newsites for things I'm interested in like it is my J-O-B. I spend five to six days a week in the gym...becoming healthy has become important to me and I have made huge strides in this area.

I can't dance in the slightest. There isn't the slightest bit of rhythm coursing through these veins. I can't sing either. If you've ever heard a duck drowning you come close to my singing ability. When I've had a few too many, I think I'm great at both.

I have a daughter...she is without a doubt my greatest accomplishment. The best times of my life are spent with her. If that scares you, I'm sorry. I'm not looking for a mother for her...she has a good one already.

What I’m doing with my life

I work for a freight company...I am an area supervisor over a profit management group...my territory consists of the northern half of the country.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm tall. 6'4" give or take 1/2 an inch. I've been told I have a pretty good smile and laugh.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I like to read quite a bit. Vince Flynn, Jeffrey Archer, Clive Cussler, John Grisham, and David Baldacci to name a few. Nostalgia from my school days has found me reading the classics again. For music I tend to lean towards alt.country and rock. My favorite bands are Cowboy Junkies, Over the Rhine, Fleetwood Mac, Lucinda Williams, Ryan Adams, and The Killers. I really don't watch a lot of movies...I used to but don't that much anymore. I don't really know why. Godfather is a classic. Food? Mexican, Italian, whatever.

The six things I could never do without

1) My daughter
2) My friends
3) My car (gotta get around somehow)
4) My Blackberry.
5) Computer/Internet
6) Good books.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The future. My daughter.

On a typical Friday night I am

Hanging with friends or doing something with my daughter. I'm not real sure what typical is, though.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Whoa...let's not get so personal off the bat.

You should message me if

I originally kept this simple but I guess I need to break it down a bit. I would still like to have more children so if you aren't looking for kids or are too old to have them, we won't work. It is worth mentioning that I am not interested in a long distance relationship out of the Indianapolis area. Respect, honesty, and trust are at the core of any relationship. If you are incapable of achieving those three then I wish you happy hunting. There also has to be some attraction.

You can take this next part for what it's worth.

Life is ever changing and I have spent enough time wasting it. I have made some wholesale changes to make myself better both inside and out. I'm a simple guy, but I'm not looking for someone that is complacent with life. It is ever moving and ever changing and I won't sit around and watch it.

"Two are born to cross: their paths, their lives, their hearts." I am looking for a mate that wants to share her life with someone else. That doesn't mean we have to do everything together, I definitely believe in nights out with my guys and she should have the same. Um...just not with my guys. That reads wrong.

I want to be there to support her through her successess as well as stand by her through her misfortunes and offer the comfort, peacefulness, and encouragement that I can. I want to roll over in the middle of the night, feel the warmth of her there and in the morning wake up early to make her breakfast before she wakes. I want to laugh over a bottle of wine and 2 hours later look at each other and laugh again at something shared earlier. At the end of a tough day I want to be the one to rub her shoulders if that is what she needs. I want my lover to be my best friend.

So that's it in a nutshell...it may be hokey but one thing is definite: it is honest. If you think the same way or find me interesting then you should contact me.