Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am Seth and I am here, with my girlfriend, to find that third
person to make our monogamous relationship into a poly triad. We
are currently looking for another female to add to our
relationship. Our goal is to have a mutually loving relationship
with another female.
I'm not going to lie... if you message us you're probably going to
spend more time talking to Chantal than you will me because, let's
face it, she' talks... a lot. She's also better at it than I am.
You'll see what I mean about the talking a lot below.
Here's a little bit more about each of us:
Seth - I would rather someone be honest with me, rather than be
nice to me. Anything worth taking seriously is worth making fun of.
I would like to say that I'm unique. I love to be sarcastic, and I
enjoy joking around. I'm a sucker for kids, and I do not mind
dating someone with kids. I'm into martial arts and I'm working
hard on getting myself into better shape. I love to cook, be
outside, and I also really enjoy playing video games, especially
ones I can play with my friends. I have a mohawk.
Chantal - I am a wife in demeanor. I dote upon the ones I love and
want to be doted upon. I don't require constant attention I just
need to know that I matter to you and you want me to be around and
enjoy me being around. I don't want kids RIGHT NOW. I would like
them before I turn 35. I'm 28 at the moment.
I am funny, honest, and work really hard to bring smiles to the
faces of those I care about. I'm told I'm really easy to talk to
because I set the tone that you are accepted for who you are, not
that we'll get along but, until I've made the effort to verify that
we don't get along we probably will. I am an ENFP and Inspiring. I
like having a relationship where everyone is treated with respect
via honesty and understanding between everyone involved. I think
when you're honest from the start you save everyone time. If you
can respect others like I do, then when disagreements come up it's
more of a discussion or a debate and less of a fight. I'm not a big
fan of fighting since I say things I don't mean when I'm
I live by the golden rule but that doesn't mean that I'm entirely a
push over. I don't like stepping on toes but I do like looking at
things like a gold system. If you've treated me to more gold than
I've treated you, I'm not going to make much of a fuss. If I've
treated you to more gold than you've treated me, when that balance
gets unreasonable, I will make a fuss. Fairness is key with
Since the "My Details" can't include Chantal's information, here
White. 5'7". Curvy. Does not smoke. Rarely drinks. Never does
drugs. Religion is Christian but not too serious about it. Sign is
Virgo and it's fun to think about. Some College. Doesn't have kids
but wants them. Likes dogs and likes cats. Speaks English fluently
and Japanese as a beginner (still learning).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Seth - Working in a greenhouse and going to school for a yet
undecided horticulture degree.
Chantal - Working in a call center and going to school for a degree
as an Administrative Assistant.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seth - Cooking, swimming, camping, being outside, video games,
board games, fishing, hiking, and being an alpha for my dogs.
Chantal - Art and being a pain in the ass. At least I'm cute while
doing both. Being compassionate. I'm really bad at jokes and
attempts at being funny. I am really good at being off the wall
"where did that come from" weird. I'm really bad at talking
sometimes because when I talk about a topic I haven't already
thoroughly thought out or decided my position on I have to think
about it more. I am really good at over thinking things because
when I want to say something I try to be sure I say what I mean.
I'm also really good at saying things I don't mean when I'm mad
because I don't take the time to do the aforementioned task of
thinking things through. I'm really bad at taking hurtful sarcasm,
it's a pre-programmed reaction from a long and very scarring
relationship but I usually can pick up on those things as time goes
by being around people who do it. Analyzing situations and trying
to discern the best outcome and usually the most efficient outcome.
I work hard on my relationships. If something isn't working I'd
rather figure it out than leave and if it can't be figured out,
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Seth - How tall I am and how much they like my eyes and my HUGE....
sense of humor.
Chantal - My hair, yes it's natural. My eyes because everyone knows
green and red are more than good Christmas colors! I am emotionally
transparent and I have a lot of emotions. That does not mean that
I'm constantly a drama queen. I can't hide my emotions very well. I
don't like lingering in feelings though so I try to work through
them quickly. I don't like being angry or sad for long.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Seth - Too many to even try to list.
Chantal - HA internets ur funny... as if I could sit here and write
them all down and come back and change them when it changes...pfft
forget it... I will say though that I enjoy mostly dorky things
Dungeon's and Dragon's, Firefly, Glee, Harry Potter, LotR, Cards
Against Humanity, and Magic The Gathering. And I would do very bad
things to be with Harley Quinn even for a minute.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Seth - Friends, Family, Internet, Food, pets, and sunlight.
Chantal - Basic human necessities for optimal survival
Use of all body parts that I was born with
My sense of self
Communication tools or someone to communicate with
(I answered this question the way that I would if a Djinn were
involved. Details are paramount when making wishes. Common role
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Seth - My brain never stops and it just jump and jumps.
Chantal - Where my life is going and if I'm on the right track to
get there. How much I miss my family and what I'm going to do if my
mother doesn't beat her cancer.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Seth - haha...hmmmmm
Chantal - I can't say because I don't know. But, I'll tell you that
eating, breathing, playing with my dog, talking to Seth about
something, sleeping, and working all happen on that day (or any
given day) at some point.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Seth - HA nice try internets, you're going to have to ask me
Chantal - At times I am a pessimist by reflex. Something I am
constantly working on. Most people would never even notice it
because I'm so upbeat but, my brain is a silly thing sometimes.
Oh... and I've also LARP'd before.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're interested in finding more about Chantal or myself. Also, if
you're someone who isn't afraid to be honest and/or you're curious
about what we want from our relationships.
Chantal - Or if you just want to chat! I love a good chat.
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