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27 Schenectady, NY Man


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  • Ages 18–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jan 24
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Judaism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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Hello 2014! New year, new profile update, eh? I'm Seth. I design games for a living. I love my job. I also love good movies, good food, and great conversation. I don't love clubs, bars, drugs, or sports. I hate crowds. I love quiet nights talking life, eating great food and maybe playing a game. I can be lazy but I will do anything for my friends. If I don't like someone I will make that clear. I'm not the best at sugar coating my feelings. If I like you then you will be hard pressed to find a more loyal friend. If I don't then I'm not going to waste my time with you. I am incredibly open. Nothing you say is going to shock me. I've seen worse.

I know people say they are terrible at writing about themselves, and I guess I am no different, but I did want to be upfront about a couple of issues.

I have never been in a relationship, which means I've never had sex. That doesn't mean I know nothing about the subject, I just haven't found the right person. I do think sex is very important in a relationship so if you get to the questions and wonder if I'm not not into sex or something, that isn't the case. I'm also quite open when it comes to sex and relationships. I won't judge if you don't.

I don't have a car and I live with my parents. The first isn't a huge deal in this area because there are plenty of buses to get around. The second I just wanted to note that I have lived on my own before. I only recently moved back home and that was due to financial issues. I'm not the type of gamer who lives in my parent's basement playing World of Warcraft all day.

I say it below but I want to say it here as well. I weigh 300 pounds. I don't exercise a ton though that isn't really my key issue. I took medication for much of my life that caused me to gain a lot of weight. I have been off that medication for about a year and I've lost about 50 pounds or so without really changing any of my diet or exercise habits. I am still losing at a regular rate so hopefully one day I'll get to a more reasonable weight. Anyways, point is that if you can't stand a big dude then, again, don't bother.

Okay last thing for now. I am very socially liberal. If you are religious then we aren't going to get along. I strongly support gay rights, women's rights, minority rights, and really the right for every person in this country to be treated equally. If that isn't something you agree with then don't bother. I partly wanted to add this because of how big an issue sexism is in gaming. Both gamers and game designers can be super sexist people so I just wanted to make it clear that I am not that type of person.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm making a video game at a company I am founding .
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and rationalizing. I try my best to never let my emotions cloud my judgement. I do what makes sense not what is emotionally or socially acceptable. I solve problems with logic. I'm also very non-violent. Fighting either with fists or words doesn't solve anything. Examining the issue and finding the best solution for everyone involved does.

EDIT: I realized this might make me seem a bit cold. I do get emotional. I love a lot of people very strongly and I deeply care about the well being and happiness of my friends and family. I'll always listen to a friend in need and do my best to comfort them. My point in the above was that I try very hard to solve problems as rationally as possible. When someone questions me or accuses me of something I do my best to explain my side of the story as clearly as possible. I of course sometimes get angry but I try to always deal with issues as quickly as possible. Avoiding confrontation almost always makes things worse. The quicker you deal with an issue the less time it has to fester and the higher chance you have of dealing with it without a shouting match. Simple really.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my weight. I weigh over 300 lbs. I've been losing weight but I'm still very heavy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - I sadly don't read nearly as much as I used to. I tend to start a lot of books but end up not finishing them. Recently I read the first two segments of Cloud Atlas which I enjoyed and the first third of Heart of Darkness which I also enjoyed. I have Blood Meridian sitting on my shelf unopened. I'll get to it eventually.

Movies - I'm a huge movie fan. In 2012 my favorite film was Lincoln. Daniel Day Lewis is outstanding. This past year (2013) I didn't see as many movies as I'd like and my favorite currently would be Gravity and I thought Frozen was a great return to form for Disney. As for all time favorites, I'd go with A Clockwork Orange, American Beauty, Road to Perdition, Pan's Labyrinth, The Cabinet of Dr. Caligari, The Dark Knight, City of Lost Children, Nausicaa of the Valley of the Wind, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Grave of the Fireflies, Wall E, Memento, Titanic, The Motorcycle Diaries, Into The Wild, and many more. I'm an animation lover. Everything from Disney, to anime, to Eastern European stop motion, to Looney Tunes.

TV - I recently started watching Community and I think it's pretty great. I also enjoy American Horror Story. I'm partway through the second season of both those shows.

Music - I'll listen to most any genre. I enjoy a ton of different bands and styles from pop fluff like Katy Perry, to Rap like Eminem, to boy bands like The Backstreet Boys, to classic rock like Simon and Garfunkel, to techno like Basshunter, to more indie stuff like Bright Eyes. Pretty much anything goes on that front.

Food - I love food. I enjoy creative food. Something with effort put into it. I love everything from cheeseburgers at Five Guys to the top places in Chicago and New York.

EDIT: Saw some people put their favorite games here so I thought I would add that as well

Games - Half Life 2, Braid, Journey, Limbo, Bioshock, Mass Effect trilogy, The Last of Us, Gone Home, The Witcher series, Counter Strike, Prince of Persia, Heroes of Might and Magic, Super Mario Brothers, Sonic the Hedgehog, Gears of War, Uncharted, Sly Cooper, Resistance, Ratchet and Clank, Beyond Good and Evil, Psychonauts, Metal Gear Solid, Devil May Cry, Ninja Gaiden, Bayonetta, Portal, God of War, Flower, Spec Ops The Line, The Walking Dead, Dead Space, Cart Life, The Longest Journey, Metal Arms, and a ton more. I couldn't come close to naming everything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1 Friends and Family
2 The Internet
3 Kitties
4 Video Games
5 Movies
6 Good Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A lot. I am always thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On my couch playing a game or watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hmm. Dunno. Ask me anything you want and I will answer as best I can.
You should message me if
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If I seem interesting or if you want to know more about me.

I'm not super picky about body types. I don't really have a specific type of girl I find attractive. As in, I don't have a perfect girl in my head. A pretty face is kind of the number one thing for me and I don't even know how I would define a pretty face. Regardless, there is a chance I will find you attractive regardless of your weight or height or hair, eye, or skin color.

I'm not a huge party person so if you are the type of girl who enjoys smaller, quieter gatherings of people I think we would get along.