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23 M East Lansing, MI

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jun 9
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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My name is Seth.

I am a female-to-male transgender. If that turns you off, that's fine, to each their own, but don't message me if it's not something you can deal with, please. I am being up-front with you because I don't want to get my feelings hurt in any way over this technicality.

I graduated from Michigan State University with a degree in Criminal Justice, with Honors, with an additional major in psychology, and with the Honors College. In other words I'm an over-achiever. That's the most you'll ever here me brag about myself. Ever.

I am currently unemployed due to the fact that I recently returned from a crazy, stupid, love adventure in Germany. I plan to return to East Lansing in a week or so to find a new job. This fall I will be attending LCC to become a paramedic.

I enjoy watching movies- Netflix was kind of a bad habit of mine in the States that will soon be revived. I like pretty much every genre, including horror movies, but I am by no means a movie buff. There are a lot of movies I haven't seen yet and I never know who acted in what or who directed what.

I don't play video games often because I fear they would distract me from the more important things in life such as homework. You might be able to talk me into playing but be warned: I suck.

I enjoy reading too. The Kindle app is my best friend right now. It fills my time between my daily jog and checking Facebook. God my life is a bore right now. I'm actually considering forming a video game addiction right now.

I don't watch the news or read the paper-more bad habits I suppose- and don't care much about politics.

I love music but again am bad at remembering the people behind it- musicians, composers, etc. I listen primarily to punk and heavy metal type stuff (Aren't you impressed with language skills?). My favorite bands will forever be AFI and My Chemical Romance.

I am not athletic at all; however, I enjoy being active. I love jogging, taking long walks, swimming, and hiking. I also love to long board but am not the most graceful at it. I used to play softball back when life was simpler and I was a lesbian but was no good at it.

I am generally a very neat person but there were always certain spots in my former apartments that succumbed to meaningless haphazard piles of I don't even know what anymore. (I am currently living out of a suitcase so I don't own much right now that is meaningless.) If you are not a neat person I totally respect that because I admit at times I'm not either; however, just because I can handle messy does in no way mean that I will tolerate dirty. Bleach is my best friend. I enjoy vacuuming more than is healthy.

I enjoy talking to people- not mindless chatting but having actual deep conversations where you learn about the other person.

I drink several nights a week but more for that feel-good buzz and the nice fluffy feeling in my head before bed than to get seriously drunk. I like wine and beer but tend to have a preference for any given occasion.

As far as smoking goes...I wish I could just quit. I don't smoke that much, usually one cigarette at the end of each day. In Germany I smoked a lot more- usually three cigarettes every evening- but since I returned to Michigan I haven't smoked at all. Yes I miss it.

Winter is actually my favorite season because I love holiday lights and the cold crisp weather is so invigorating. Snowfall at night makes the world seem like a serene place for a moment.

I am a rather devoted person when it comes to my family and friends. I enjoy taking care of people and am a naturally protective person. This annoys some people and flatters others.

I enjoy cooking but am in no way a culinary genius. I just like cooking for myself versus take-out. I am also not a health-nut, fair warning. If you're a health nut I find that impressive and I respect that but it's not going to stop me from eating the same foods I've always eaten: eggs, pasta, burgers, and pizza are some of main staples.

I am not a very snazzy dresser: I wear skinny jeans, a v-neck tee, hoodie, and skate shoes every day. Sometimes you might wonder if I've changed my clothes in several days although I assure you I do shower and change clothes everyday. I also wear thick geeky glasses. Are you turned off yet? I'm honestly impressed you made it this far.

Wow I actually ran out of things to say. Actually that just made me feel like I was on a date and talking waaaaaaay too much about myself. I would rather hear people's stories than tell my own.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Well I recently graduated. I'm the proud owner of what is feeling like a useless B.A. in Criminal Justice. My dream job was to be a cop but there are so many reasons I cannot or should not follow through with that dream. Really I just want to help people in their darkest moments so I am hoping that drive will be satisfied when I finish the paramedic program.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm not really good at much. People think I'm really smart because I had a high GPA but that is only because I really pushed myself to give it my all. It meant a lot of sleepless nights and walking a tightrope of emotions but I did it, damn it. Slight masochist I guess. I work well under pressure too. I've written research papers in 12hrs that professors wanted to send me to grad school for because they were that impressed. I guess that might mean I'm good at writing but I don't think so.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My fauxhawk no matter what color it is- brown, black, or red.
The tattoos on my forearms.
Everyone seems to love my geeky glasses.
My green eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Loved the Hunger Games books.
I loved the Harry Potter books- the movies were okay.
I love anything written by Stephen King or Dean Koontz.
I love the following TV shows: Bones, Firefly, Rescue Me (don't judge me), CSI (before Grissom left), the Walking Dead, Saving Grace, and House.
As far as music goes I love alternative rock. Some of my favorite bands are: My Chemical Romance, AFI, Falling in Reverse and 30 Seconds to Mars. I also enjoy classical music.
My favorite movie genres are dramas and thrillers but honestly I like a bit of everything. I don't really have favorites. Two movies I watch again and again are V for Vendetta and Love Actually.
As far as food goes I eat pretty much anything. I love Indian food, Thai food, Sushi, and Chinese food (granted what I have been exposed to are the Americanized versions of these). I love meat. I prefer coke over pepsi but I love mountain dew. (Someone once messaged me because of that last statement) I also love slurpees whether it's 90 degrees out or -9 degrees out.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) I-Pod (although I accidentally left it in the States and still haven't gotten it back yet- it's been 39 days and counting).

2) cell phone- I lived a month abroad without one and it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be although I did miss texting more than I care to admit.

3) laptop- my laptop is named Giles after the librarian in Buffy the Vampire Slayer because he's awesome like that.

4) pets- I had to find my ferret and three rats new homes before leaving the States and I'm losing my mind without them :( My next pet will probably be a hairless rat. I would love another ferret but after having to give up my first I'm waiting till I fucking grow roots into the ground before I have to take that risk again.

5) companionship. If this were a ranking list Companionship would be ranked #1

6) a pocket knife. I have a small collection of knives carefully packed in storage. I'm always carrying one for protection and just because you never know when it will come in handy- to open a box, cut that string that's hanging from your shirt sleeve, etc. A new knife is on my short list of things to spend my first paycheck on. My sixth tattoo is at the top of that list. ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future. The job I will have. Where in the world I will travel throughout my life and where I will decide to settle down. Will I commit to someone enough to want to have a family with them? Oddly enough I also mull over my past relationships a lot, honing in on what lessons I learned from them so that in my next relationship I can be an even better lover.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On a Friday night I am either at a party with some close friends or chilling at my apartment watching movies. Hopefully it's with someone who I can wrap an arm around.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Haha I'll tell you anything but I'm going to make you ask ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You find me interesting, if you want to have deep, intense conversations about ANYTHING, if you want to hang out, long board, watch movies, go out casually. I'm up for pretty much anything.

I just got out of a pretty serious relationship (we were together for eight months and I moved across an ocean for them) so I'm not looking for anything serious right now but that doesn't mean something serious couldn't develop.

Also, if you cannot think of me as male please don't message me.