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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40-60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 18
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Other and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm a sensual sadist. I am active in the local kink community. I am currently in a relationship but we are always open to new friends. You don't need to be experienced, its fun to introduce someone new to all that kink has to offer. I assure you a great ride and the possibility of discovering a part of you that you didn't even know existed.

I am sensual, imaginative, and kinky

I have recently found that I am HSV-1 positive (Herpes simplex virus type 1).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm in the computer software business but that does not define me. I am exploring all that life has to offer. Since I discovered the world of BDSM my life has become beyond my wildest dreams. Fantasy is only that which has not yet happened.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have many talents but here I wish to emphasize those that have to do with sensuality from gentle to extreme. I am adept at most aspect of the BDSM lifestyle and can take you places you have not even dreamed.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My sense of humor. I love word play and my friends have to tolerate puns.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - The old guard S.F. authors; Heinlein, Asimov, Clarke and many more. For kink "Screw the Rose..."
Movies - Real SciFi movies, not the monster of the week tripe. My favorite kink movie is "Secretary" as it does the best job yet of describing what it is that I do.
Music - classical, jazz.
Food - most everything - except liver.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My spiritual connection with whatever it is that is behind this Universe, sex (both vanilla and kinky) my circle of friends, donuts and at least two other things that would make this add up to six.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Who I am and why I'm here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home watching the tube or at some kink activity.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I think I already have.
You should message me if
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If this doesn't cause you to run screaming and you find what I have to offer intriguing.