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SewSoSam

28 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 26–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 26
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I've been known to sit in a swimsuit in front of my air conditioner eating oreos....I'm classy like that.

When I smile one eye gets significantly smaller than the other and my face ends up looking lopsided.

I walk really fast, and talk very fast too. I love to learn and explore.

I work a lot...I enjoy staying busy. I also consider myself lucky to be able to spend so much time doing something that I love to do...I feel like that it is becoming more of an uncommon experience. So for as long as it lasts, I intend to enjoy it.

I'm pretty happy with myself. I like to think I'm good people. I love to laugh and to make others laugh. I have a very dry, sarcastic sense of humor. I consider myself a loyal friend...I will bend over backwards through a flaming hoop to take care of my friends.

I have a huge appetite for travel....Now I'm just working on the part where I can make it possible. School, jobs, and vacations have taken me all over the world, but there are still so many more places I want to see.

Don't be afraid to say hi.

I am witty, outgoing, and straightforward
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying it as much as possible.

I am happily working a lot, loving what I do, and a having life again. I think it says a lot that Im excited to go to work each day.

I really can't think of anything else I would want to do....mainly because I don't have any other marketable skills...ask my mom...she'll tell you.

Outside of working I'm taking time to do the things I enjoy. I love a good random outing or exploration, spending time with friends, or having a lazy night on the couch with some really great take out.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being an idiot.

I pride myself on my ability to make people laugh. (Apparently my severe ADHD comes across as acute comedic timing....either way....I won't argue)

I think I'm a good listener... I generally believe that most problems can be solved through lengthy conversations and a good meal.
The first things people usually notice about me
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In terms of personality...I guess people notice that I'm pretty outgoing. What can I say? I like to talk.

I've been told I have nice eyes...so there's that...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Road, Mysteries of Pittsburgh, The Final Solution, No One Belongs Here More Than You, The Dressmaker, Life on the Color Line, Night, The Lovely Bones, As Is, Angels in America, Night

Movies: Life is Beautiful, Drop Dead Gorgeous, Little Children, Hairspray, Crybaby, Elizabeth, Diehard 1,2,&3, Monsoon Wedding, Center Stage, The First Wives Club, The Help

Music:Basically everything.....save some rap......and not a huge fan of death metal either

Food: EVERYTHING! I love to eat. I'm not joking. I don't play around when it comes to food. I've learned to truly embrace my inner fat kid.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My friends.
2. My family
3. Snack food....I love to eat...so sue me
4. My phone
5. Music
6. A comfy pair of jeans
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My life...the future...tomorrow.

What might be coming my way.

The conversations I had last night.

The friends I haven't seen...or the ones I've just seen.

Really anything....again...ADHD...it tends to cover all the bases....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Some nights I'm on the couch with friends doing nothing of merit except laughing until I cry and maybe pee a little...

Other Fridays....out exploring...being social....finding a new adventure.

Either way, food is generally involved.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm honest to a fault...what you see is what you get. Well that, and I have a tendency to wear my heart on my sleeve.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you have your life together. If you're kind, honest, and love to laugh and explore.

But most importantly, if don't want to play games and genuinely want to get to know me.