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32 North Highlands, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:49pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Open relationship
Has a kid
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Looking for some fun and someone to keep up with my geekiness. Anime, gaming (both console and tabletop) MTG, etc etc etc.
I am more then you will expect.

I thought I was an athiest till I realized I a God.

I work in a warehouse for money
Work in a game store for fun
And teach a kink class for fulfillment.

You can find me on:
Fet - thelastshahrizai
Okc - sexnerdfox

In a confidant open marriage.
If you want to know more. Feel free to message me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Whatever I want. I'm always striving to improve myself and increase my skill set.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading people. Regardless of what people might be trying to say, I find reading the body and habits of people to be truly telling.

I try my best to use this to put people at ease around me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am always moving. In a crowd or group of people I will often be bouncing from one group to another. One on one, I usually take control of most conversations.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Sword of Truth Series. Christopher Moore, Terry Brooks, R.A. Salvatore, David Eddings, The Sleeping Beauty Series, The Kushiel Series(all of them).

Movies: The 5th Element, Scott Pilgrim vs. the World, The Jackass Movies, a bunch I can't think of at the moment.

Shows: Archer, Big Bang, 30 rock, True Blood, Game of Thrones.

Music: SOOOO much music. Andrew W.K., J-pop, K-pop, LMFAO, MC Lars, MC Frontalot, Shaffer the darklord, The Aquabats.
*new from 1/23/2013* Shaka Ponk - why hasn't anyone told me about them before? They are so good.
Food: I am an amazing cook if I do say so myself. I am always looking for new flavors and things to try.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My Wife (A love)
2. Friends (always able to relax)
3. Sex (My true vice)
4. Kink (gotta be true to myself)
5. My phone (gotta keep connected)
6. Music (It's my fuel)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I have so many non sent messages to people on here. There is such fine line between confidence and not coming off as a douche. Perhaps you have an unsent message from me?!?

Kink scenes. I'm always jotting down new ideas and things I'd like to try. Fire, rope, chains and other toys are all possibilities.

Where all the sex positive people are in Sacramento. It seems like Davis tries, but really it seems like the Bay Area is the closest place to find people that enjoy Sex for the sake of sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working my fun job till a bit late, after that its a matter of who's still up. Usually it's Sunday nights that I get out and about.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm deeply involved in the Sacramento kink scene. I teach individuals in some of the arts. While enjoying others in the privacy of my own home. I'm particularly fond of fire and have been getting into creative piercing (think corset piercing)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are looking for some fun times. If you want to hang and geek out over some Firefly, or other some geekery. Also if you think you can keep up in the kitchen with me.

I want to meet a woman that enjoys the more carnal aspects of life as much as I do. I'm always looking for new experiences to share and learn. And if you can teach me something I would be more then a little intrigued.

I'm signed up the the Fall Tough Mudder so I'm always looking for people to either participate or just train with.

Also if you have a FetLife I would love to discuss things with you.

Things I'm not looking for:
Druggies- I'm cool if that's your thing, but doesn't work for me.
People that view sex as a dirty word.
Cheaters - just because I like sex doesn't mean I'm going to help you get back at a boyfriend.

Amendment: Guys. While I have been an every once in awhile enjoy the company of the masculine persuasion. That is not what I'm looking for at this moment.