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31 M North Highlands, CA

My Details

Last Online
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6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
First and foremost I do have a fiancee, and am not looking for anything more then someone to hang out with and see where it goes from there.

I am a geek in the sense of the word. I game, I read all the time, I enjoy many geeky shows, and stuff like that.

Definition of a nerd: what makes someone a nerd is how passionate they are about something and how they will try to understand that thing on a granular level, like, more than anyone else in the world. And a lot of times, at the expense of things that they probably should be doing. Like, if you're blowing off work to make sure that scale model that you're building is perfect, that's nerdy. So I think it's the level of which someone has a passion and focus about something that they care about, I think that's what it is.
What I’m doing with my life
Whatever I want. I'm always striving to improve myself and increase my skill set.
I’m really good at
Reading people. Regardless of what people might be trying to say, I find reading the body and habits of people to be truly telling.

I try my best to use this to put people at ease around me.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am always moving. In a crowd or group of people I will often be bouncing from one group to another. One on one, I usually take control of most conversations.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Sword of Truth Series. Christopher Moore, Terry Brooks, R.A. Salvatore, David Eddings, The Sleeping Beauty Series, The Kushiel Series(all of them).

Movies: The 5th Element, Scott Pilgrim vs. the World, The Jackass Movies, a bunch I can't think of at the moment.

Shows: Archer, Big Bang, 30 rock, True Blood, Game of Thrones.

Music: SOOOO much music. Andrew W.K., J-pop, K-pop, LMFAO, MC Lars, MC Frontalot, Shaffer the darklord, The Aquabats.
*new from 1/23/2013* Shaka Ponk - why hasn't anyone told me about them before? They are so good.
Food: I am an amazing cook if I do say so myself. I am always looking for new flavors and things to try.
The six things I could never do without
1. My Fiancee ( My True Love)
2. Friends (always able to relax)
3. Sex (My true vice)
4. Kink (gotta be true to myself)
5. My phone (gotta keep connected)
6. Music (It's my fuel)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why I have so many non sent messages to people on here. There is such fine line between confidence and not coming off as a douche. Perhaps you have an unsent message from me?!?

Kink scenes. I'm always jotting down new ideas and things I'd like to try. Fire, rope, chains and other toys are all possibilities.

Where all the sex positive people are in Sacramento. It seems like Davis tries, but really it seems like the Bay Area is the closest place to find people that enjoy Sex for the sake of sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working my fun job till a bit late, after that its a matter of who's still up. Usually it's Sunday nights that I get out and about.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm deeply involved in the Sacramento kink scene. I teach individuals in some of the arts. While enjoying others in the privacy of my own home. I'm particularly fond of fire and have been getting into creative piercing (think corset piercing)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
If you are looking for some fun times. If you want to hang and geek out over some Firefly, or other some geekery. Also if you think you can keep up in the kitchen with me.

I want to meet a woman that enjoys the more carnal aspects of life as much as I do. I'm always looking for new experiences to share and learn. And if you can teach me something I would be more then a little intrigued.

I'm signed up the the Fall Tough Mudder so I'm always looking for people to either participate or just train with.

Also if you have a FL I would love to discuss things with you.

Things I'm not looking for:
Druggies- I'm cool if that's your thing, but doesn't work for me.
People that view sex as a dirty word.
Cheaters - just because I like sex doesn't mean I'm going to help you get back at a boyfriend.

Amendment: Guys. While I have been an every once in awhile enjoy the company of the masculine persuasion. That is not what I'm looking for at this moment.