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38 San Leandro, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 23–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Today – 1:59pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Other, and very serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Art / Music / Writing
Has a kid
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hello, I am a poly, "BHM" (BIG HANDSOME MALE). I have a beautiful wife, dragoncat42. This does not mean I am not looking for new friends or partners.
I am a cool, lovable, fun guy. I love music, movies, camping, and
animals. I am looking to find new friends to hang with and people
to date, possibly have Friend with benefits . *Ideally* I'd
like a secondary partner that I can hang out with my friends and primary partner.

I am Fun, Exciting, and Handsome
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I attend different events that catch my attention: pagan
pride, gay pride, art / science events, and hanging out with my
friends. I love making new friends, going fishing, and learning to play bass.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, listening, laughing, making chainmail, drawing, and Australia Kisses. LOL
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Definitely my confidence. I am not a small guy by any means so people also tend to notice my size. But, my confidence always wins out. =D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Sci-fi as well as fantasy. Books like the Dragon Lance Chronicles and Forgotten Realms. Also Michael Moorcock's Elric of Melnibone books (if I can ever find them again). As far as music goes, I listen to just about everything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
Good friends
A Great Book
A Drawing Pad and pencil
Something to pet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future, some more good friends, and clever but futile.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with a friend, getting ready for or going to a kinky play party.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a dominant in the BDSM community, While I do not have to have it in all my relationships, in the intrest of truth - there it is.
Also I am a big geek that collects MOTUC figures and transformers.
You should message me if
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You are open minded, Want to talk, or hang out. Want to be friends or other, and/or also like to Watch movies and cuddle on occasion.