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37 M San Leandro, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 24
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Other, and very serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hello, I am a poly, "BHM" (BIG HANDSOME MALE). I have a primary
partner, dragoncat42. This does not mean I am not looking for
new friends or partners.
I am a cool, lovable, fun guy. I love music, movies, camping, and
animals. I am looking to find new friends to hang with and people
to date, possibly have a secondary relationship with. *Ideally* I'd
like a secondary partner that I can hang out with my friends and primary partner.

I am Fun, Exciting, and Handsome
What I’m doing with my life
I attend different events that catch my attention: pagan
pride, gay pride, art / science events, and hanging out with my
friends. I love making new friends, going fishing, and learning to play bass.
I’m really good at
Cooking, listening, laughing, making chainmail, and drawing
The first things people usually notice about me
Definitely my confidence. I am not a small guy by any means so people also tend to notice my size. But, my confidence always wins out. =D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Sci-fi as well as fantasy. Books like the Dragon Lance Chronicles and Forgotten Realms. Also Michael Moorcock's Elric of Melnibone books (if I can ever find them again). As far as music goes, I listen to just about everything.
The six things I could never do without
My family
Good friends
A Great Book
A Drawing Pad and pencil
Something to pet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future, some more good friends, and clever but futile.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with a friend, getting ready for or going to a kinky play party.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a dominant in the BDSM community, While I do not have to have it in all my relationships, in the intrest of truth - there it is.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You are open minded, Want to talk, or hang out. Want to be friends or other, and/or also like to Watch movies and cuddle on occasion.