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39 San Leandro, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 10
Open relationship
Relationship Type
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
Two-year college
Has kid(s)
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I am a cool, lovable, fun guy. I love music, movies, camping, and animals. I am looking to find new friends to hang with and expand my social circle. And yes BHM means I am FAT if you have a problem with that move on now. there are reasons I am this way and they are not food related, keep your shallow shit to your self. if you are open minded enough to look past that please read on.
What I’m doing with my life
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I attend different events that catch my attention: pagan
pride, gay pride, art / science events, and hanging out with my
friends. I love making new friends, going fishing, and yes even though I am happy with me I am still making changes to better my self as a person, even weight loss.
I’m really good at
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Cooking, listening, laughing, making chainmail, drawing,
The first things people usually notice about me
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Definitely my confidence. I am not a small guy by any means so people also tend to notice my size. But, my confidence always wins out. =D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Sci-fi as well as fantasy. Books like the Dragon Lance Chronicles and Forgotten Realms. Also Michael Moorcock's Elric of Melnibone books (if I can ever find them again). As far as music goes, I listen to just about everything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
Good friends
A Great Book
A Drawing Pad and pencil
Something to pet
And cuddles.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future, some more good friends, and clever but futile ideas.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with a friend, getting ready for or going to a kinky play party.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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This is hard for me to put on here, but here it is. several years ago my life fell apart and I did something stupid. I tried to starve my self to death. As a result when I could take it any more and started eating properly again i learned that hard way the only thing i killed was my metabolism and that is why i am so big but i have lost over 200lbs.
You should message me if
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You are open minded, Want to talk, or hang out. Want to be friends and/or just want to watch a movie.