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46 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 25
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Somewhat), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Smart, playful, funny, clever, sensual, passionate, sarcastic, generous, open.

Borderline between ENTP and ENFP.

I'm an eclectic combination of deep, goofy, loving, and irreverent. I'm on a mission to try more, do more, learn and experience more.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Putting myself under a microscope. I've been reexamining myself and my assumptions about who I am. For example I've been taking personality and skills assessments and carefully studying the results, researching the methods behind the tests, taking time to integrate all than and then looking my myself again under the light of that new knowledge. Rinse, repeat. I've hired a career consultant to assist me with all of that as well. It's been illuminating. I've confirmed some things about myself, overturned previous assumptions, and discovered new things about myself as well.

I've also been seeking new experiences searching for more things I enjoy or am good at. Strengthening parts of myself that had been neglected or undiscovered, a lot of which has been in creative or artistic areas.

I'm also hoping to find someone to share my adventures, explorations, pleasures and passions. Someone to enjoy all the variety the world has to offer with me. Someone to live with, work with, play with, sleep with, travel with, even fight and make up with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Flying by the seat of my pants.
Finding the humor in just about anything.
Brainy conversation.
Looking danger in the eye without flinching. ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Friendly and outgoing.
My smile, and my mischievous air.
My zany, goofy humor and sarcastic wit.
My eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
EDIT: I guess I lied to myself about getting back to this part. Oh well. Maybe later, maybe not.

I'll come back to this, I know I need to flesh out my interests and such. For now rather than list a bunch of titles here's the kind of thing I like.

In movies I like suspense, anything that really makes you think or keeps you guessing, sci-fi, comedy and good action flicks.

In books, well most of the reading I do these days is for information rather than entertainment. But I am an avid reader.

Music, pretty much anything you can dance to and more. Rock, swing, bossa nova, jazz, classical, techno, dance music, house, etc.

Food, well there isn't much I don't like. Except liver, just don't go there.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good friends who know you better than you know yourself.
Kissing. Long slow soft ones and hot passionate hungry ones.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Doing some extended travel in South/Central America and Asia.
Improving my Portuguese and Mandarin & learning other languages.
Improving peoples lives.
Becoming a better & better version of myself.
Super powers.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
● You have something to teach me or show me.
● You're ready for adventure and desire someone to share it with.
● You want to enjoy some of the finer pleasures with me, and some of the coarser ones too. Maybe at the same time?
● You just want a new friend and think I might be it. (Platonic friends welcome)
● You're GGG.