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28 M San Jose, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:30pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
When drinking
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from space camp
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), French (Poorly), Latin (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Hello everyone! I am a shy, nerdy type when you first meet me but can be quite loquacious once broken out of my shell. I'm ex-military but I really didn't fit in too well there, socially. Not the military type.

I love cats, fencing, reading, and computer games
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently working as a clinical technician for the Bon Secours hospital system but looking into other areas. I want to be an achiever!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fencing, conversing, and apparently talking people into things. I seem to be doing a pretty good job of that at work. Nothing suspect, mind you, just part of my duties.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Apparently my eyes. I've been told by some that I have piercing eyes, others say sultry, and still others say intimidating. I guess it depends on my expression?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a bit of a fantasy and sci-fi nerd, but lately I've been reading more non-fiction. I enjoy reading anything science related, whether it involve Richard Feinman, Stephen Hawking, Carl Sagan, or any of scientists of note. Also, I like readying about eastern philosophy.

Movies? I don't watch them too often. I really liked The Man From Earth, I enjoyed the LotR series back in the day, I thought A Clockwork Orange was a pretty good adaptation of the book. Oh, and I identify with the characters in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.

As far as music goes, I have a wide variety of favorites. My all-time favorite is Tom Waits, but I also listen to NIN, Rammstein, Mumford and Sons... Hell, I'm all over the place.

Food is something I'm passionate about, but not in the way you might expect. I don't care all that much about eating it, I just love to cook. It's like a form of meditation to me. I enjoy inventing new recipes and sometimes just picking some ingredients and outright winging it. Always seems to turn out well.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My computer
My books
A well-stocked kitchen
My cats
And three feet of cold steel.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the universe, and everything. I love thinking about the concepts of physics and science in general.

I try to spend some time every day in a state of self-reflection, taking a mental inventory of my thoughts and feelings.

I also think a fair bit about fencing; strategy, etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably sitting right here, unless I have someone to spend my time with.

I'm a little reclusive. Somewhat of a misanthrope, but I promise I don't bite if you handle me gently.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have PTSD. So there's that. Fun. I don't like to talk about it, and please don't ask me if I've killed anyone.
You should message me if
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You enjoy good conversation, need someone to talk to and don't have anyone, want to meet and have some fun, or are just plain curious.

I'm here to meet anyone interesting, be it for friendship, just conversation, texting buddy, serious relationship, casual relationship... I'll let interpersonal chemistry determine the direction it takes.