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35 M Washington, DC

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Yesterday – 6:27pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I've been told I can appear to be an unassuming boy next door and then I open my mouth and shatter the notion, with something borderline inappropriate as a test to see if I can shock or provoke someone or just spice up the conversation.
While I consider myself to an open book, I've been told there is another side that lies beneath the exterior persona ...

How useful is a self-description when that is predicated on self-perception and when its really all about the chemistry and connection that you feel when you meet someone new. Now, sometimes a person can just feel that click and twinge of attraction and can just talk for hours with someone, which only really happens when you talk and meet in person. I think the match making questions are reveling to an extent, but not entirely predictive.

In any event here area a few tidbits about some things I have done. In high school and college I was on the swim, speech and debate and trivia teams. I was also briefly an elected official in DC.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm in the midst of launching myself as an author / speaker, TV personality based on some books I have written. Past experiences include being a consultant, promotional model and politician among other things.

Originally from Florida Go Gators I was on the swim team and speech and debate teams in high school and my first two years of college.

Some things on my bucket list include appearing on national talk shows, race car driving, flying a plane, tornado chasing, being a hurricane reporter in the middle of the storm. I and traveling to Seychelles and Mauritius.
I’m really good at
- Being a sponge for information and good at trivia

- Guessing a woman's cup size

- Figuring out creative, effective ways to solve problems

- Being a human GPS.

- Giving massages

- Telling inappropriate stories of intrigue.

- Being a kind of "good luck chuck."
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm a ginger.

My calves. In 8th grade a classmate who later became a Play Boy Playmate of the month said I had sexy calves.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Charlie Wilson's War, Thank you for Smoking, I Love You Man, Wedding Crashers, Limitless, Hitch, American Beauty, Casablanca, Donnie Darko, All That Jazz, The Duel, political thrillers, physical slap stick comedies, movies with little plot where stuff gets blown up.

Burn Notice, How I Met Your Mother, Big Bang Theory, NCIS, Jeopardy, The Simpsons, King of the Hill, Family Guy, Lie to Me (based on the work of Paul Ekman), 24 and X Files back when they were on

Steak - medium rare, crab legs, lobster, creative omelets for breakfast, bacon, salty chocolate and whiskey

The Count of Monte Cristo, Brave New World, 1984, Fahrenheit 451, lots of non-fiction books relating to sexuality and relationships, I am a big fan of Tristan Taormino among others. Self-help books that instruct and inspire including classics like: Think and Grow Rich, The Science of Getting Rich (more than money), Psycho-Cybernetics.

An eclectic mix, here are a few, Gotye, Lots of 80s music from my childhood years back when MTV still played music videos, DePeche Mode, Maroon Five, electronic music especially when running, Royksopp, Moby, Movie scores by John Williams, Phantom of the Opera sound track.
The six things I could never do without
Not necessarily in this order :)
- Google
- chocolate-covered bacon
- travel
- Football
- intelligent conversation
- sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- Whatever writing project I am currently working on and better ways to do things.
- How unfair it is that some in our society still have this double standard when it comes to women and sexuality.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends at bars meeting new people, out entertaining clients or spending an evening in. Jazz in the sculpture garden during the summer is always nice.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have no sense of smell. No, really I can't even smell a gas leak or oranges or coffee grounds right under my nose.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
You should NOT message me if
- You are hoping that I might be "the one" right now.
- You are looking for a guy with his life completely together and things figured out professionally.
- I can't tell who you are because all of your pictures are groups shots. That is unless you're all hot and come as a package deal :)

You should message me if
- You are smart, intelligence is a huge turn-on for me.
- You are willing to be bold and sexually flirtatious right off the bat. Innuendos and double entendres are good fun :)
- You are physically active. At least be able to make it through Billy Goat Trail A at my pace (don't worry its not super fast.) However marathon runners, triathletes, former college athletes and yogis are welcome too.
- You are a woman who owns her sexuality or are traveling that path.
- You looked at at some of the answers to my questions and think we are compatible on the important things.
- You can create bad puns and double entendres on the fly.