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36 M Arlington, VA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:09pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I've been told I appear to be quite wholesome and unassuming, and then I open my mouth ....

I'm just back after traveling in England for a few weeks.

In answer to a question I recently received, the shirtless picture is from a photo shoot when a friend nominated me for the Cosmopolitan Magazine bachelor of the year contest. However I'm actually just a bit of a nerd that's grown up ... a little bit.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I left the corporate,management consulting world after discovering that "Office Space" was not jjust a satire of corporate life but also a reality. I'm currently a writer and do odd jobs while pursing dreams of making it big (translation, starving artist.)

Originally from Florida I am a big sports fan. Past professional experiences include being a management consultant, salesman, promotional model and politician among other things. In my high school and college days I was on the swim, speech and debate and trivia teams. I was also briefly an elected official in Washington, DC.

A major challenge I am trying to figure out is how to promote a self help book, a compilation of erotic stories and a book that describes how I overcame an "incurable" chronic illness and helps others do the same.

Other future goals include race car driving, flying a plane, tornado chasing, being a hurricane reporter in the middle of the storm, and traveling to small obscure countries that most people have never heard of.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a sponge for information. procrastinating or avoiding seemingly small problems while crushing major challenges that at first seem impossible. Playing devil's advocate in a civilized way. Being really good at finding places. Giving and receiving massages. Guessing a woman's cup size from just a picture ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm a ginger, my calves.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Charlie Wilson's War, Thank you for Smoking, I Love You Man, Wedding Crashers, Limitless, Hitch, American Beauty, Casablanca, Donnie Darko, All That Jazz, The Duel, Ghostbusters I and II and the soundtracks too, political thrillers, physical slap stick comedies, movies with little plot where stuff gets blown up.

Burn Notice, How I Met Your Mother, Big Bang Theory, NCIS, Jeopardy, The Simpsons, King of the Hill, Family Guy, Lie to Me (based on the work of Paul Ekman), 24 and X Files back when they were on

Steak - medium rare, crab legs, lobster, creative omelets for breakfast, bacon, salty chocolate and whiskey

The Count of Monte Cristo, Brave New World, 1984, Fahrenheit 451, lots of non-fiction books relating to sexuality and relationships, I am a big fan of Tristan Taormino among others. Self-help books that instruct and inspire including classics like: Think and Grow Rich, The Science of Getting Rich (more than money), Psycho-Cybernetics.

An eclectic mix, here are a few, Gotye, Lots of 80s music from my childhood years back when MTV still played music videos, DePeche Mode, Maroon Five, electronic music especially when running, Royksopp, Moby, Movie scores by John Williams, Phantom of the Opera sound track.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Not necessarily in this order :)
- Google
- chocolate-covered bacon
- travel
- Football
- intelligent conversation
- hot mind blowing sex ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whatever writing project I am currently working on and better ways to do things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Adventuring, frolicking, running amuck :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have no sense of smell. No, really I can't even smell a gas leak or oranges or coffee grounds right under my nose.
You should message me if
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- You are clever, fun, witty.
- You are a sex positive and open-minded
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