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36 M Arlington, VA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:18am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I've been told I can appear to be an unassuming boy next door and then I open my mouth and shatter the notion ....
Otherwise I consider myself to be just a normal guy.

I think the match making percentage and questions reveal more relevant information on how compatible we would be.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I ditched the corporate world after discovering that "Office Space" was not a satire of corporate life but a reality. I'm currently working on being a writer and surviving as a starving artist of sorts.

Originally from Florida Go Gators, past experiences include being a management consultant, promotional model and politician among other things. And back in my high school and college days I was on the swim, speech and debate and trivia teams. I was also briefly an elected official in DC.

Things on my bucket list include appearing on national talk shows, race car driving, flying a plane, tornado chasing, being a hurricane reporter in the middle of the storm, and traveling to small obscure countries that most people have never heard of.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Being a sponge for information

- Creative resourceful problem solving

- Being a human GPS and being good at finding places

- Giving massages
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm a ginger, my calves.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Charlie Wilson's War, Thank you for Smoking, I Love You Man, Wedding Crashers, Limitless, Hitch, American Beauty, Casablanca, Donnie Darko, All That Jazz, The Duel, Ghostbusters I and II and the soundtracks too, political thrillers, physical slap stick comedies, movies with little plot where stuff gets blown up.

Burn Notice, How I Met Your Mother, Big Bang Theory, NCIS, Jeopardy, The Simpsons, King of the Hill, Family Guy, Lie to Me (based on the work of Paul Ekman), 24 and X Files back when they were on

Steak - medium rare, crab legs, lobster, creative omelets for breakfast, bacon, salty chocolate and whiskey

The Count of Monte Cristo, Brave New World, 1984, Fahrenheit 451, lots of non-fiction books relating to sexuality and relationships, I am a big fan of Tristan Taormino among others. Self-help books that instruct and inspire including classics like: Think and Grow Rich, The Science of Getting Rich (more than money), Psycho-Cybernetics.

An eclectic mix, here are a few, Gotye, Lots of 80s music from my childhood years back when MTV still played music videos, DePeche Mode, Maroon Five, electronic music especially when running, Royksopp, Moby, Movie scores by John Williams, Phantom of the Opera sound track.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Not necessarily in this order :)
- Google
- chocolate-covered bacon
- travel
- Football
- intelligent conversation
- sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whatever writing project I am currently working on and better ways to do things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends at bars meeting new people, out entertaining clients or spending an evening in. Jazz in the sculpture garden during the summer is always nice.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have no sense of smell. No, really I can't even smell a gas leak or oranges or coffee grounds right under my nose.
You should message me if
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You SHOULD NOT message me if
- You are hoping that I might be "the one" right now.
- Corollary to the above, if you a super religious and that is important to you in a man
- You are looking for a guy with his life completely together and things figured out professionally. I've got dreams, but its not all there yet.
- You have a picture of you holding a baby. No offense but it makes me think of pregnancy and wanting to have kids sometime soon.
- I can't tell who you are from the pictures. That is unless the other women in the picture are part of a package deal :)

You SHOULD message me if
- You are smart, intelligence is a huge turn-on for me.
- You can create bad puns and double entendres on the fly.
- You are reasonably physically active.
- You are a woman who is sex positive and has a good energy and vibe
- You looked at the match making percentage and were 90% or above or 90% or above in the categories that are most important OR are not but want to take a shot anyway.