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My self-summary
I walk to the beat of my own drummer and love talking about life, people, thoughts and ideas.

I am smart and confident. I am also very even keel and accepting.

I am big on loyalty and once read that people born in the year of the dragon hold loyalty as one of their highest virtues. If that is so, it fits.

The biggest enemy a person has is their fears. Overcoming them is our challenge.

Live every day as though it is your last, and nothing is impossible.
What I’m doing with my life
I am at a point in my life where I am truly finding out what I want-- and I am very Happy about it.

I am definitely still figuring it out, but there was a big period of my life where I wasn't trying new things for many different reasons... and as a result, I wasn't really finding out about myself.

I am currently a partner in a growing residential and commercial remodeling company. I learned the business from my father and I am growing my business because I see it as the best path I have towards financial growth.

However, I have also found that I have a talent for business and company building. I have a strong vision for my company and I want to see it fulfilled.

What I am not currently doing but I eventually want to do is to Own and be the artistic director of my own community Theater. I have always loved being part of theater. I act and sing. As a matter of fact, I recently got to be in The Producers! That was a lot of fun. Theater definitely makes me happy and I plan to keep it and grow its presence in my life.

But my first focus is currently my business.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at introducing people to each other at parties and being a social facilitator.

I like to play devil's advocate and see both sides of situations. Maybe that's my Gemini traits.... don't know about that... but it is fun to think about. :)

I am an excellent actor and good singer. I am good at problem Solving & Planning, Computer trouble-shooting and other technology related things.

Lastly, I love learning. If I don't know how to do something, I will find out how.
The first things people usually notice about me
People think I am Gay. I'm not. But they still think it.

This may seem like a strange thing to admit on an online dating site... but I am what they call Stray... a strait man who sets off your Gay-dar.

This is probably because I am vocal, animated and expressive. I am loud, friendly and fun. Especially if you put a few drinks in me.

I actually read a interesting article on it... you can read it here.

But truthfully, I'm just being me and I'm fine with that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
As a Driven Leaf (Milton Steinberg) -- This is a book about losing faith and trying to find answers. I read it in high school.

Burning in water, Drowining in Flame (Charles Bukowski),
This book makes me think of Los Angeles, and I love the aggression of his poetry.

On the Road (Jack Kerouac) -- After reading this I wanted to travel around North America for a couple of months. I still haven't done it, and it is still high on my life desires list.

The Dance and the Railroad (David Henry Hwang), --- This is a one act Play I directed in University. It has all kinds of challenging acting elements and I love the story of two Chinese Railroad workers and their dreams.

Blade Runner, -- Amazing Sci-Fi based off Philip K. Dick's "Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep" The main reason I like it is it asks the question "What does it mean to be alive? And can machines be like us?

As Good as it Gets, -- I at times in my life have related to Jack Nicholson's Character. The clip below is one of my favorite movie scenes.

Stranger than Fiction -- For similar reasons, I have related at times in my life to Will Ferrell's character in this movie. Plus the movie has literary elements that as a former English Major I love. But, most of all, there is one scene in this movie that pretty much sums up my feelings about romance... This is it.

Big Fish -- Father's and Sons. Life and Death. The story of your life. One of my favorite movies of all time.

The Princess Bride -- As you wish.

Transformers: The Movie (circa 1986 Animated), -- More than meets the Eye! I admit it... When Optimus Prime died... I cried.

Music: Ben Harper, Bill Evans, Alternative Rock, Classic Rock, Jazz, The Weepies, The World Spins Madly on, Coldplay, U2, Yellowcard, Green Day, They Might Be Giants, Grateful Dead, Led Zepplin, Lots more...

Star Trek, Stargate SG-1, Battlestar Galactica, The Science Channel, The History Channel, Red Dwarf

Breaking Bad -- One of the best shows ever!

Game of Thrones -- Addicted.

Food: Mexican, Indian, Chinese Food, Food Trucks, Thai, Holes in the wall
The six things I could never do without
Dreams -- Without dreams about my future I couldn't imagine life. I know that life won't play out as I imagine it... but when I imagine great things for myself, I work towards achieving those things. Dream big or Go home.

Knowledge -- I love to learn about new things. I love to read about, people, power, relationships and any other information that I imagine would give me an edge in life.

Exercise -- When I don't take care of my body, I suffer. Exercise is the steady habit by which I maintain the energy I need to pursue my dreams.

People -- I thrive, learn and grow from my relationships with people. People I love... People I am indifferent to... Even People I dislike or hate... there is something I learn from them all... and in learning about people, I learn how to participate in positive experiences with people.

Google -- Seriously... Google has changed our lives. If I want something... I Google it. If I want to learn or figure out about something and the information isn't readily at hand... Google.

My Mate -- I haven't met her yet... I have no idea what she is like... who she is... or how we'll be together. But I can't wait to find out.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Thinking?! Thinking?!

I think about EVERYTHING. If my brain had an off switch, that would be awesome.

I love to think. But, I have learned, through hard lessons, how to quiet my mind. I have spent some time learning about mindfulness and acceptance. I have read books on thinking, psychology and the mind.

Our brains are thought generators. The trick is to not believe everything you think. :)

Be still, let thoughts flow through you without judging them. That is the biggest thought lesson I have learned in my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
On a Friday night...

I like to be social with good people. I like to have good food and perhaps play apples to apples or cards against humanity. Movies are always a good option too!

Good company is the most important thing... that and a sense of adventure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like chick flicks. But if you tell anyone I'll deny it.
You should message me if
You are looking for something incredible. Something amazing.

So if you want to have fun, talk, get to know each other, hang out, catch a movie, explore LA--- shoot me a message.