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Eclectic, Spontaneous, and Eccentric

My self-summary Propose an edit

I am very blunt and say what I feel or say what needs to be said. Some people can't handle that as well as my sense of humor which gets me into trouble a lot, oh well if people can't handle it, only means they can't handle me. My Children come first, My Husband Second. We have an open Polymarous marriage. But that doesn't mean I jump everyone's bones. If you can handle a friendship or Relationship And I Do Mean LTR with a married woman and respect my boundaries, feel free to write or if you have any questions. I don't Judge people it's not my place and besides you have to live with you, not me. What you see is what you get, I don't play with people's emotions. There is a saying there are people who are beautiful outside, but ugly inside and vice versa.

I don't like liars Or Game Players. Grant it we all tell our little white lies, but when it comes to relationships, you should be able to trust and be open with the one you love. I am a fluffy chick, but still hella sexy :D.

I Love Animals, Always Have. Was Notorious As A Child Bringing Home Strays, Which Drove my Mother Crazy And Well I Was very Popular At The Local Police Precinct..LOL. Here Is A List of My Fur Babies And Scalely Babies.

1)Tarantula-her name is Gothika, 2) 2 King Snakes~Isis and Apache, 3) 3 Dogs~ Tiki,Max,Cisco. 4) 2 Cats~Spike,Adam 5) Pigeon~Skyla Found Her As A Baby In The Barn And Well She Is Now Part Of The Broad. 6) 3 Degus~Blondie,Tuft,Stubby 7) Skunk~ Found Her Little Tiny Self Wandering Around Alone On A Dirt Path And Well I Couldn't Leave Her There Alone. She Is Being Basically Rehabbed And When She Is Ready ,She Will Be Brought Back To The Wild Where She Belongs And Live Out Her Natural Skunky Life As Long As Possible.

Hmm A little more about me. I was not born or raised here in Wisconsin, Born in Spanish Harlem, raised in Brooklyn. I moved out here 6 years ago to meet my second husband. We met on-line and have been together ever since. You can say he has been the catalyst in my life, the one who awakened the butterfly. Damn farm boys :D.

Usually we don't find ourselves through other people, it's a solo journey. But he has helped me to find myself in some ways, LoL I won't give him all the credit. I'm usually a quiet person, But can be a wolf when provoked. I prefer a drama free life, at this stage in life hell it's welcomed with open arms. I Rather have peace and solitude, but those who bring war, will get war. I Am Pagan And Proud of it. I am not wiccan. Some would say my path is a left hand path. but that is what they will say, though it is not. But I am not one to care of what others think of me or about me. Not big on gossip either.

My husband says I'm an enigma, guess I am. I don't see things the way people usually see them. I'm a sponge when it comes to new things. I love learning and expanding my wee brain, especially when it truly interest's me. I like to look beyond myself,I wish more people would. Then they can see what is truly going on around them. I Have to laugh when people say wow you are intelligent. Because it tells me that they only looked at the exterior and made a judgment without seeing the inside of me. Yes I Love Thigh High Boots And Being Every Bit Of The Female I Am, But I Do Have A Brain And Pretty Much Know How To Use It And When If you get what I mean.

Life Lessons My parents have taught me and I live by

1) Don't shit where you eat ( Figure it out)

2) Never rat out your friend or your enemy

3)What Happens in the house , stays in the house. In other other words don't go speaking personal family stuff in the street. It doesn't belong there.

Namaste

Awww first test that actually fits me LOL

BLUE MOTIVE: Intimacy

BLUE NEEDS: To be good (morally), To be understood, To be appreciated, Acceptance.

BLUE WANTS: To reveal insecurities, Quality, Autonomy, Security.

SUMMARY: Blues are motivated by altruism. They love to do nice things for others. they look for opportunities to give up something in order to bring another person happiness. selflessness rather than selfishness is their guiding philosophy. Blues seek intimacy. They want to be loved and to love. A true blue will sacrifice a successful career to improve an important relationship. Blues crave being understood. They are gratified when they are listened to, when they feel understood and appreciated. Blues may have their hearts broken more than most people, but they also spend much more time in love. Blues are directed by a strong moral conscience. They have a moral code that guides them in their decision making, their value judgments, and their leisure time. A blue would rather lose than cheat. Ethically, blues are people who should be in positions of power, but seldom are.

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Living it,Trying to get my online business going and once its up expand it with the ideas I have running through my head.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Being A Parent,Being A Witch,Graphic Design,Jewelry Making,Writing Poetry,Dancing

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

My Eyes,My Smile

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Anne Rice,Dean Koontz,Stephen King and the list goes on. More of a Horror/Mystery/Fantasy reader.

Saving Private Ryan,Full Metal Jacket,Platoon,Man On Fire (Denzels Version), X-Men Trilogy, Blade 1 And 2 (3 sucked and its only saving grace was Ryan Reynolds),Queen Of The Damned,Interview With A Vampire,J.C Vampires,Dusk Till Dawn,Remember The Titans,John Q, Training Day,Malcolm X, American History X,Crimson Tide,Hills Have Eyes,Practical Magic,Stigmata,13th Warrior, Underworld & Underworld Evolution,Kiss The Girls,Seven,Saw,Bram Stokers Dracula,Gladiator,Dogma,The Reaping,The Departed,Bourne Supremacy,Welcome Home Roscoe Jenkins,Hitman,Resurrecting The Champ,The Invisible,Iron Man,Apocolypto,The Brave One, and This list goes on.

H.I.M,Apocolyptica, The 69 Eyes,FlyLeaf,Led Zepp,Pink Floyd,Bob Seger,NickelBack,J-Lo,Salsa,Freestyle,Dance,Disturbed,Godsmack,Twizted,Enigma,Sarah McLauchlin,Crystal Method,PortisHead,Delerium,Massive Attack,This Mortal Coil,Lacuna Coil,Perfect Circle,Tool,N.I.N, Type-o Neg,P.O.D,Mudvayne,GreenDay,Linkin Park,AeroSmith,Journey,AudioSlave,Korn,Three Days Grace,Gorillaz,Pucifer ,Stevie Nicks,FleetWood Mac,Pat Benatar.Motown.Some Classical. *NO COUNTRY* ok I got some Garth Brooks cds pfffft whatever lol ..new age basically music from around the world...also this goes on

Puerto Rican,Some Polish,Chinese,Thai,Italian,Some German.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

My Kids, My Husband,My Pets,My Religion and Honoring My Ancestors, My Writing, My Music And The Other Necessities Of Life

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

A lot Of Things, My Brain Is Always On Active. I'm A Thinker And Sometimes It Can Be A Pain In My Butt .

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Ripping The Wings Off Faeries,Dancing In The Woods,In The Rain And Calling The Spirits.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

Nothing,My life is my own and what needs to be said is said only to those I love.

You should message me if Propose an edit

you have something worth saying besides hey you want to meet up on yahoo to cyber or cam .Cause you can forget about it.

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ShadedWolf: 203 questions

Ethnicity
Undeclared
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Leo and it's fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of two-year college
Job
Other
Income
N/A
Kids
Has children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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