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ShadesNY

56 / M / Straight / Single

Garden City, New York

His Details

Last Online
May 9
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Just another guy stuck on this spinning orb in space. It is a miracle I'm here and I would like to make the most of it. Despite that desire, I find I really like the simple things that keep me in tune: Hanging with friends and lovers; walking through the woods; enjoying a good meal; listening to music; reading or watching a good story; relaxing with a bottle or wine; meeting new people.

I would like to be saving the world, but I really don't have the energy or know what to do that will make that happen. In fact, those people who think they know are the ones that scare me (and not in a a good way).
What I’m doing with my life
Most of my times is spent on business and family. I'm looking to expand that list by joining this site.
I’m really good at
Understanding people. Some think I have succeeded due to my skills with computers; I say it is my skill with people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite TV show is The Wire; too many movies to mention; love all music, but mostly rock and, lately, country (currently listening to Etta James); all kinds of food
The six things I could never do without
My daughters
Health
Friends
Something to read
Music
Something new
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whatever I am doing right now...
On a typical Friday night I am
I hate typical Friday nights; I try to avoid them at all costs.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Most everything, you just have to get know me first.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–64
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You are someone worth knowing.