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ShadowWatcher

28 / M / straight / Seeing someone

Bronx, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English, Russian (Poorly), Latin (Okay), German (Poorly)

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I am intelligent, empathic, and straightforward.

My Self-Summary

Enjoy randomly searching for new adventures, relaxing with old friends, and meeting new people.

Often too honest and straightforward for my own good. Apparently these flaws cause some people to over think my position and motives instead of just taking me as I am. While I may be complex (so I'm told), my enjoyment doesn't come from someone beating themselves over the head trying to figure me out with energy that would be better served being used in other ways. This is the main reason you should never ask me a question you may not want an honest answer to.

Retired from saving people from themselves and trying to "fix" people. These pursuits were fruitless and downright impossible. Living my golden years being happy and standing by people, and looking to meet more, who aren't too mentally damaged to be there for themselves first and whose goals/path lead towards personal growth and enlightenment. Therefore if you can't leave H.S. damage in the past and are helplessly twitched out by random innocuous words, be well and try to find some fun in your life.

Overall, looking for partners in crime with whom I may chill and not have to over think things with. Taking applications in many different categories as may be viewed on the side pane, whether it be acquaintances occasionally going out for coffee, random hookup enjoying each others' time, or a friend that may or may not lead to more.

What I’m doing with my life

-Starting to marathon train so triathlon training doesn't kill me in late Feb/March.
-Finishing up about 19 credits left that were abandoned to work 60 hours a week for the past 7-8 years.
-Reading Theory of Everything
-Working on random consulting projects to pay for my pistachio addiction.
-Playing silly Facebook games, cause everyone needs something mindless. *smirk*

I’m really good at

Being there for friends, old silly video games, and teasing. Overall, anything I put my mind & will to becomes a new proficiency.

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes or my smirk

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Philosophy books in general; Princess Bride, The Usual Suspects, Fight club; Behind Blue Eyes, 45, Justified & Ancient; Sushi, Double Jacks, Lemon Death Mix

The six things I could never do without

Honor, friends, family, spine, bed, teasing.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Where I want to be in life and who I want to be there with.

On a typical Friday night I am

Out and about looking for trouble.
Playing poker, bowling, or curled up on my couch with my phone off enjoying the blessed silence.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Right now I'm wearing black boxer briefs. They cradle and are loose! One of the best inventions of the 20th century.

You should message me if

You're amusing, know how to have fun, and have a sense of humor (good/bad either is fine). Having your mind in the gutter at least 5% of the time is a bonus, but not a deal breaker.