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Shadowdude2

24 M Heidelberg, Germany

My Details

Last Online
May 24
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.89m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
Native Californian living in Germany for the year.

I have a wild imagination, a wild personality, and a wild life and that's just the way I like it. For me, life is all about exploring and discovering new things, people, places, and feelings, and trying to improve my life and the world around me while I'm at it.

I am Intelligent, Confident, and Indulgent.

I am a Polyamorous Feminist. I do not currently consider my self bisexual, I identify as heteroflexible, unfortunately there are only three options on this site.

Back home I have been involved in the San Francisco kink community for many years.
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently living and studying in Germany for a year abroad. This should be my last year for my Bachelors degree, though I may have a couple classes to do when I get back.

I have an Associates Degree in Social and Behavioral sciences and am working on a Bachelors in Anthropology with a minor in Human Sexuality. Might also attempt to pick up a second minor or major in German. I am hoping to do my Masters Degree in International Relations.

I have traveled to seventeen countries, fifteen of which are in Europe, and I'm hoping to expand that number drastically this year and in the future.

Back home I occasionally work in bars and Gogo dance.

I'm a pretty physically active person. I swim and play Water Polo regularly, and I also love hiking, yoga, biking, and other sports. Also I'm always looking for new activities. Anyone who wants to teach me rock climbing, kayaking, or martial arts has an instant in.
I’m really good at
Singing, Dancing, Swimming, Cooking, Talking to people, Coming up with crazy, grandiose ideas, Making people smile, and Always having fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
My outgoing personality, and my height.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love Sci Fi! From the Classics, like Enders Game and the Hitchikers Guide, to the grunge of the Godfather of Cyberpunk, William Gibson to the utter ridiculousness that is Matt Ruff. Also a fan of some fantasy and vampire novels (Anne Rice, not Twilight). Add to those a healthy compliment of classics, mind twisting dramas, and non-fiction/academic books. Admittedly my shelf of books that I need to read just keeps growing as my reading time is usually occupied by required reading for school and I rarely have or make the time to catch up on reading.

I'm not very picky when it comes to movies, just not horror movies. As long as they are well made and cause some sort of emotional or intellectual response, whether that be laughter, sadness, or reconsidering life as you know it. My favorites are Drama, Comedy (not stupid comedy), Adventure, Sci Fi, Fantasy, and Chick flicks.

I don't watch a lot of TV on a regular basis, but I am totally guilty of burning through entire series on Netflix marathon style. I love Drama, Sci-fi, and occasionally Sitcoms. Doctor Who, Sons of Anarchy, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Star Trek (especially TNG), How I Met Your Mother, Firefly, House

Music! Ok, so I'm not one of those people who always walks around with earphones on, listening to music. That's because I am one of those people with music always in their head, singing and dancing to my internal playlist.
I love all genres of music with two exceptions: Rap and Country, and even with those there are some exceptions like some fusion/intelectual rap and some more classic country songs.
My current favorite Genres are Industial, Dance Metal (Rammstein), and all kinds of Techno (Trance, House, Dubstep, Drum and Bass, Electro, Downtempo, everything), mixed in with some Alternative, Jazz, Funk and Soul, and on the classical side of things, Darker Classic, Romantic (Brahms), and Opera.

I love gourmet food and drinks (I have expensive tastes). I really enjoy trying new cuisines and love ethnic foods, especially Asian. Cooking with new ingredients and trying new and healthier things in the kitchen is very fun.
Also I enjoy high quality alcohol. I love wine tasting, have brewed some beer, and have a constantly expanding home bar. I drink with some frequency but not in very high quantities.
The six things I could never do without
The obvious (Food, water, air, sleep, good health)
People
Laughter
Music
Adventure/New experiences
Sexuality
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to alter my future and the future of the human race for the better. Where to travel and what to learn next. Perverse things.
On a typical Friday night I am
I haven't really established a typical schedule in this country, though I do like to go out to nightclubs on Friday nights when I can, or hang out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am VERY open, feel free to ask me any questions you like.
One "secret": I used to be anorexic.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You are a fun loving person and you think we would get along.

If you would like to have an intellectual or philosophical discussion or debate on just about any topic.

If you want someone to workout with (I do much better with others).

If you want someone to dance with.

If you want someone to travel with.

If you have any questions about the San Francisco BDSM scene or the lifestyle in general.

Or if you just think I'm sexy.