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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism and it’s important
Might want kids
Has cats
English, French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I suppose I would characterize myself as some sort of deviant intellectual.

I say deviant because I have always felt just a little out of kilter with the rest of humanity for all that I am essentially motivated by the same desires as anyone else. I find that I empathize most strongly with those who have experienced some unique personal challenge or trauma. I have a certain disdain for social constructions such as dress codes, gender roles, common conceptions of an individual's beauty or lack thereof and the like. Needless to say, if you are an individual who aspires to 'normality' I am probably not the gentleman for you :)

I say intellectual not so much because I imagine myself to be particularly erudite but because I try to analyze, understand, and evaluate anything and everything. Possibly as a form of escapism on occasion...

I like to collect moments of beauty, cuteness, whimsy, or poignancy. For example: One time as I was walking in a park, I passed three children who appeared very much to be siblings. The first one, a strapping young gentleman of perhaps some 8 years ran right on by me. The second, a young lady of nearly the same age, was making some odd bouncing jumps. She explained as if the question were plainly obvious "I am NOT skipping. Or jumping. I am PRANCING." As she passed by, the third, a young lady of maybe 4 years waddled as fast she could in the rear, pleading "Walk, walk!"

I've got a big soft heart that gets bruised pretty regularly. gets used to. I generally feel better about myself (and life in general) when I feel like I've had a positive affect on someone's life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Studying to become a nurse. Looking for a few more fellow deviants who have not been beat down. And who maybe have a bit of time to spare. Trying to maintain sanity, life, and liberty in a world filled with insane, ignorant, emotionally unstable people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting little folk to fall asleep.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I really haven't the faintest idea. And I think I prefer it that way. I think people are different enough to fixate upon any number of bizarre characteristics.

Some possibilities: Oddly inflected speech, vocabulary, thinning scalp (Ahem: I'm BALDING, damn it), my second pair of arms...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Tortilla Flat, Song of Ice and Fire (series), Bridge of Birds, Perdido Street Station, The Ill-Made Mute, The Grapes of Wrath to name a few.

Film: Amelie, Brazil, Twelve Monkeys, The English Patient, The Third Man (best movie ending of all time, IMO), Hot Fuzz

Music: Tom Waits, Beck, The Dubliners, The Beatles

Food: Calzones, curry, assorted asian dishes; foie gras, various sour and gooey cheeses, tart fruit, spiced cookies and sweets.

Tend not to watch TV
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Love. Or more particularly at the moment, loneliness :(
- Strategies for assorted goals
- People. Please note: I'm endlessly fascinated as to how people see themselves and the world. This results in me looking at and reading a lot of profiles. And returning to read again. This does NOT mean that I'm stalking you. Or even interested in a romantic sense.
- Sex. Hey there, I'm a guy (or perhaps I should say human) :) It's not the entire focus of my existence and no, I am NOT interested in some sort of one-night stand or casual encounter; but to deny this would be dishonest.
- Schemes for drawing laughter out of my young niece and nephew.
- The things nobody is talking about
- Just about everything else, given sufficient time
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Roleplaying. I have a standing gaming night / group potluck arrangement with a number of friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That depends entirely upon audience. To you, fair reader, I admit NOTHING!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. need someone to bounce some thoughts off of; if you have some bizarre scheme of an adventure in mind and need experimental subjects; or are willing to subject yourself to my own.

(Idea #725-A: Convince a complete stranger to accompany me on a day trip up to Woodburn to search for latin cuisine. Hopefully one who, like myself, is completely unfamiliar with the geography of said town)