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Shadowoflight

25 / F / bisexual / Seeing someone

Madison, Wisconsin

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Portuguese (Okay)

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I am an overachiver, unique, and goofy.

My Self-Summary

A lot of people seem to miss the relationship status at the top of my profile. So to prevent any confusion: I have a wonderful boyfriend who I met through this site over three years ago. I am not looking for people to date, people to hook up with, etc...

Just moved to Madison to get my PhD in Developmental Psychology.

I am a pretty laid back person. I love just having fun with my friends and enjoying life. I am up for most anything, whether it be dancing, bowling, movies, hiking, swimming, or just cuddling up on the couch and engaging in some intelligent conversation. I would consider myself to be a pretty intelligent person. I work hard, but that doesn't prevent me from having fun too.

What I’m doing with my life

Being swamped with school work/stress. My education/career goals are to get my PhD in psychology. When my schooling is all said and done I want to be a university professor. I also want to travel, have sex all over the world, eventually settle down, have children, take over the world, make everyone my slaves...you know, the usual. ;)

I’m really good at

Psychology. It is true. The stuff just comes to me pretty easily, which is why it is what I am spending my life studying. Ever since I was very young I have always been the friend that people came to for advice, or to help solve an argument. I also have been told by several people that I am quite cuddley and make a nice pillow.

The first things people usually notice about me

Honestly...my chest. I can't help it. I tend to get a lot of compliments/comments about my chest...it isn't really THAT large. After people get past that, most people would say they notice that I am an outspoken person who isnt afraid to speak her mind. I oddly enough also get a reasonable amount of compliments on my eyes, which I find odd since they are just boring and brown.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

book:Kushiel's Dart, The Bell Jar, Brave New World, The Constant Princess, Wicked, The Handmaiden's Tale, The Name of the Wind, all the Harry Potter books...I am a big dork and like books alot.

movies: Amelie, Ever After, Donnie Darko, Love Actually, The Notebook, corny 80's movies, The Princess Bride

music: Ani Difranco,Evanescence, The Dresden Dolls, old No Doubt

food: I grew up in a true Italian household so I love anything italian. I have a weak spot for good cooks. I appreciate good food and will try most anything once.

The six things I could never do without

Books, intelligent conversation, my big comfy bed, my laptop, bubble baths, sex

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How will I get through grad school without selling a kidney?

On a typical Friday night I am

Hanging out with friends, relaxing after a long week, having a random adventure, or if I am really tired sitting at home on my laptop. In most cases though I am content on a friday night just curling up on the couch with a comfortable person, and a good movie.

You should message me if

You are an intelligent person who enjoys someone who is not afraid to speak her mind. If you are shy and uptight, don't bother. If you think we might connect well. If you are in the area and think you would be a cool friend.